No job, no way, under ANY circumstances. Disabled? Fine, work around your disability, be creative and innovative. Retired? Fine, try your hand at starting that business you've always dreamed of.
Less money, I could care less as long as there was some drive and ambition.
In this age of technology I can't think of ANY reason NOT to have some sort of gainful employment, even if minimal.
Best one I can come up with was a gentleman I dated a while back. Perfect in every way, shape and form, BUT was obnoxiously materialistic. Everything revolved around money and was very arogant about his possessions.
I tried so hard to overlook that part of him, as it wasn't constant, but I had to painstakingly let it go. Too much of my personality revolves around being a tightwad. lol
There are 50 billion scenarios that create deciding factors.
Even AFTER divorce, same scenarios and risks apply.
I won't mess with anybody in constant ugly custody battles. Or the other party is still stalking. And some live in the past years and years after the divorce is final.
Safe to say every adult has had past relationships that could hinder a current one. Gotta be cautious, vigilant, and intuitive in every instance, not just those with a pending document.
I'm Erin the Momma to be. Daddy to be is Winds the hairball. I stick around here cause I've falsely convinced myself that someone might give a damn about what I have to say.
Also stay for insight into human nature, to kinda pick people's brains, and to steadily build proof that Lilly is stalking me.
Stay at home Mom, work online, so this is the ultimate in procrastination.
Yes, this is definitely more than virtual. Unless my phone is virtual too. lol
Folks are always in thought. But beyond the friendships, I find myself pondering the thought provoking threads, or ones I didn't have an answer to. I've had to stop in the middle of something sometimes to come log on to type something I thought of. lol It's SICK! :)
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RE: "Happy" OR "Right"?
I have a helluva time staying "right", so if I actually had the option, I'd choose right. Just to try something new.