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Apr 10, 2006 11:18 AM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
choklit1
choklit1choklit1portland, Oregon USA10 Threads 72 Posts
Would you SERIOUSLY consider daing a man that had no job... or made less money than you . (p.s I am working and this is NOT about me LOL !)
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Apr 10, 2006 11:21 AM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
TexasTornado
TexasTornadoTexasTornadofairfield, USA22 Threads 2,701 Posts
i prob. wouldnt date one with no job... unless there was a reason like disabitlity or something like that but to me that just shows no responsibilty and laziness.. less money that i do sure at least he's trying
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Apr 10, 2006 11:28 AM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
I didn't come this far in my life to "start over" and i certainly didn't raise up my children already to have one more to support...a job is important..if not for the money then at the very least for a sense of independance and self accomplishment
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Apr 10, 2006 11:32 AM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
Lillyofthevalley
LillyofthevalleyLillyofthevalleySt John's, Newfoundland Canada38 Threads 3,152 Posts
been there done that on the less money than me part....no job...that ain't a good thing....I'd have to know the circumstances and it better be between jobs...unless he's willing to have babies and keep the house for me...
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Apr 10, 2006 11:50 AM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
I'm also hoping its a "real" job...i am so not into dodging Revenue Canada!!
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Apr 10, 2006 11:56 AM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
Windygirl
WindygirlWindygirlDayton, Ohio USA21 Threads 1,846 Posts
No job, no way, under ANY circumstances. Disabled? Fine, work around your disability, be creative and innovative. Retired? Fine, try your hand at starting that business you've always dreamed of.

Less money, I could care less as long as there was some drive and ambition.

In this age of technology I can't think of ANY reason NOT to have some sort of gainful employment, even if minimal.
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Apr 10, 2006 12:07 PM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
And i have to admit...as shallow as it sounds...a "stand in" for Barney to me is minimal...JMHO
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Apr 10, 2006 12:09 PM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
Windygirl
WindygirlWindygirlDayton, Ohio USA21 Threads 1,846 Posts
Hey, if he's got the balls to be an "I love you, you love me" kinda guy, so be it. lmaooooooooo
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Apr 10, 2006 12:14 PM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
PaleEyes
PaleEyesPaleEyesLawrenceburg, USA7 Threads 176 Posts
Well the no job is hard, unless they are on SS and my age some are. But the less money doesn't matter. Theres alot to do on dates that really cost nothing or close to it. So yes on the less money and if he doesn't have any kind of income at all probably not. I don't expect a man to take care of me and I sure will not foot the whole bill all the time. I do treated dates to dinner and drinks nothing wrong with that once in awhile but not every date.
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Apr 10, 2006 12:19 PM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
I agree 100%, Windy!

Unless a man is independently wealthy, and even at that, he should have work that he enjoys.
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Apr 10, 2006 12:20 PM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
greeneyescp5
greeneyescp5greeneyescp5Denver, Colorado USA4 Threads 275 Posts
It would depend...on the circumstancs...I have supported men before...but I am much more into partnerships..probably would not do it again...It's more about respect, for yourself and the other person...I have never had anyone take care of me..and would not..and I definatley don't have money.
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Apr 10, 2006 6:45 PM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
spiceangel
spiceangelspiceangelWest Palm Beach, Florida USA17 Threads 300 Posts
What Windy Girl said...I agree 100%
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Apr 10, 2006 8:05 PM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
Errrmm - NO!
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Apr 10, 2006 8:10 PM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
Maggalicious
MaggaliciousMaggaliciousBerlin, Wisconsin USA19 Threads 1,101 Posts
I have before, and people have dated me when I had no job so I guess I would, but Not make a habit out of it.
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Apr 10, 2006 8:12 PM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
I am a guy and I believe that men should be working .
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Apr 10, 2006 8:15 PM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
Yes! You are correct, you are a guy, and I agree with you! lol
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Jun 30, 2006 9:13 AM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
jazziemam
jazziemamjazziemamQualicum Beach, British Columbia Canada3 Posts
Yes, if a man is on a spiritual path, and he has a good heart, and he is kind and loving, then it really does not matter, as long as we have the things we need in life! peace!
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Jun 30, 2006 9:25 AM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
On the spiritual path---I don't know....But as far as not having a job----NO.....That show lack of responsibility in my opinion. Unless it was recent and just temporary. But that is just my opinion....
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Jun 30, 2006 9:39 AM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
mmmmmmmmm yes i will support a man with no job ti'll he had one because someday i could being with no job myself and he had to support me??? there's 2 way medal's here.i'm a girl who really truly believe in richness or poorness sickness or health for better or worst. just help,sharing,communication,honnesty,fidelity,caring and love is enough for me. money is just piece of paper.....lol you had it in one hand and goes the other....lol
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Jun 30, 2006 9:51 AM CST A Little Honesty Today... Ladies please repsond...
Assets52
Assets52Assets52Littleton, New Hampshire USA125 Threads 2,174 Posts
I suppose it would depend on why he had no job.

My answer 2 months ago would have been "no". But since I got fired and am having difficulty finding work in my field, my views have changed somewhat. I am still here and I am still dateable.
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