No matter how you look at it, I'm a foreigner, but not much help to you. Just thought a reply might get you some attention. Ask for help from Doctor Wave; he'll get you results.
Outer beauty? What does it take for beauty to be seen?
The eyes of the beholder, as the cliché goes, but it is true. Everyone needs to see beauty in the person they love, but that can be seen everywhere, as each person is a phenomenal product of a surprising universe.
Of course, the inner beauty is more important, since that is what we've developed and is not simply the product of inheritance.
I think this can be delicate. A persons feelings and spirit can be profoundly affected, even here where things are a bit remote and 'safe'.
We just need to imagine ourselves in both positions, the more and the less 'attracted', and give what we would want given as far as gentility and tenderness are concerned, tempered always with honesty in appropriate doses.
The other Germanic languages still have neuter differences life the Latin languages. It was the interruptioin of the natural evolution of English by the imposition of French that led to every 'thing' becoming neuter. Even boats are, really. And the neuter concerning animals is only until we know the gender. Then we can use the specific pronoun.
A re-location could also be made for other love than for a woman. A project or expedition, etc;, would be tempting. Helping somewhere is becoming much more appealing.
Thank you all for having so brilliantly explained my point about English. It is like the Internet; self-defining and infinitely variable, unlike 'controlled' languages with intstitutions that determine them. That is a dead way to do things. English, in this metaphorical sense, represents anarchic democracy, to serve myself with a near-oxymoron.
That's fantastic, Alexandra! Glad I got my 2 cents in before you got here so you don't think it was just to impress you, though I guess the anti-Harley part wasn't too great.
Great to have good relations with past lives/loves. Have a great time (I'm sure you will). Just remember what my dad taught me (he was a super rider and even raced), "The minute you forget you're riding a wheel (his word for motorcycle, I think it was a term in his youth), it rides you!"
Perhaps I should add that was a very ex-wife; divorced over ten years ago.
I have a very small motorcycle that is great for getting around Paris with its awful traffic. But I'd like something over 600cc, maybe even 1400cc, but too expensive!
Don't care for either, really Thirties technology motorcycles and Middle Ages clothing. I prefer more security and support, at least clothing-wise. Perhaps I have more to protect?
But I mike motorcycles, and especially women who ride them, but not classic Harley types.
Now don't go getting overly sensitive! I included myself in the general category. As for liking you, what's not to like? Pretty, witty, intelligent. Shall I continue, or is that enough ego enhancement? I'll get Wave in here if you need.
RE: Swedish joke!
The cinema is already in Paris. "Asterix and the Vikings!" (never mind that the Vikings were long after the Gaullois, Vincingitorix days).Yeah, the Vikings were like the Hell's Angels, and there was no police force or army at all to stop them.
But everyone has taken there turn (some more than others), and all groups bear the same historical embarassments.