Leo, she didn't say you were a game player, she referred to a game you play, a part, a role you display often here. She wants to see people be strong; she's a healer, remember. You can take anything she says, no matter how harsh it may seem, in that light.
Some folks withdraw so much that they remove their profiles!
What's up, Leo? Other guys get too jealoous of you and threaten you? (just kidding). But how can I send you this French wine that's accumulating here? Are you just being 'Cautious'?
Sounds as if this 'individual' could be playing YOU with this kind of tactic. Otherwise, by 'his'definition, who here ISN'T a 'player'? We all contact one another, sometimes more playfully than others, but not 'seriously'. Threads and emails of exchange aren't grave commitments. Anyone I'm 'serious' about knows it, and even that can be 'serious' in different ways. There's 'buddies' and pure respect, too.
I have always thought this character is someone's idea of a joke, and now I know it. Certainly, if your interested in Oregon, you can spell it. And the idea of being in such a dramatically beautiful place and renting a dune buggy to speed through it is absurd.
It is a lovely state with great people. Visit it if you get the chance.
Funny what scares some people when other things go unmentioned.
Never seen any tunnels, but I have laughed as I slid over a cliff or hung from one crampon on a sheer ice face. Such a silly way to die!
But I agree that 'death' is just an expression for something we know nothing of. Do we know what 'life' is? I don't mean living, but what the 'thing', 'force' is that we call 'life'?
For those of you who would like to know, there is a true hero in this very group. I will not embarass that person, but if you look up the word in the dictionary, that person's picture is there.
Well, looks as if you've gotten very good advice here. Consider yourself lucky to be out of such an environment. It can't have been so sudden that it was not already uncomfortable. Better to be ill at ease and searching than ill at ease and aimless.
WAH! I want coffee with Alex, too! (lower lip sticking out like a Ubangi (sp?)).
But I think what Alex is sharing with you is sage advice. Could it happen (love) like this? Perhaps. Probability is low, though. Be careful, not just for you but for the other. Hollywood has done us many dis-services!
RE: Judge not Lest You be Judged.
Leo, she didn't say you were a game player, she referred to a game you play, a part, a role you display often here. She wants to see people be strong; she's a healer, remember. You can take anything she says, no matter how harsh it may seem, in that light.And you do play it up, Leo, don't you?