I don't know, you shuld monitor some things that your kids do, but not all. If everytime you come in the rrom and they are on the computer but they seem to close the box, or hide what they are doing, then I think whatever you want to do is fine. But don't be too nosy, my mother read my journal and my room and tried to tell me I couldn't date my son's father, so I moced out and didn't tell her where I went and still haven't talk to her to this day, its been two years now, don't chase them off either. Good luck in your decision. ;)
I did give him his 1 month notice, he out on the last day of March. I made an add and hung it in the Student lounge. I'm not woried that much because I go to CDI College, its a very small college, everyone knows everyone. So I would know just about anyone who replied to my add. So I wouldn't be moving in with some stranger. Very small population in this school.
Once again, thanks for the opinions, comments and advice.
Right now I am looking for someone else to move in instead of him to help with the rent. Most people put ads in the newspapers, but I dont want to do that, I think its just as stupid as letting him move in. I am trying to help myself, if I wasn't, I wouldn't be in college yet. I'm trying to pick up the pieces of my life.
And by the way, thank you again for the comments and opinions.
Oh and I just want to give evryone a heads up, Canada is nothing like the US, we don't function the same, and neither does our goverment. So take into consideration, before responding to me forum.
I don't know, but I'm with him because I neeed someone to help pay rent, I can't do it on my own.
BY THE WAY I was told that typing in Caps loc means I yelling or something, so giving people a heads up that I wasn't yelling. I just naturally type in capital letter.
WELL I LET HIM MOVE IN BECASUE HE WANTED TO BE PART OF HIS SON'S LIFE, BUT HE DOESN'T GET TO SPEND ANY TIME ALONE WITH HIM, I MUST ALWAYS BE THERE. AND I'VE DONE LOTS OF THINGS TO MAKE MYSELF BETTER. BUT MY SAFETY AND MY SON'S ARE PREFECT. I'VE GOTTEN ALOT STRONGER, AND HE EVEN RUBS ME IN THE WRONG WAY AND I'LL BREAK HIS LEGS AND HE KNOWS IT. (SOUNDS KINDA EVIL...HAHAH I LOVE IT)
YOU ARE DEFINTLY NOT DOING ANYTHING WRONG. BUT I'VE BEEN WITH A MAN WHO HAD KIDS, AND HE WAS GREAT FATHER WHEN I MET HIM. AND THEN I MOVED IN, AND I BECAME THE BABYSITTER, THE MOM, THE MAIN CARETAKER. AND I WOULDNT PUT MYSELF IN THAT POSITION. WHEN IFIRST MET HIM, HE WAS THE BEST DAD EVER. BUT THEN HE DISHES HIS KIDS TO ME. WE AREN'T TOGETHER ANYMORE, AND THE KIDS STILL COME TO VISIT ME EVERY TWO WEEKS. THE KIDS NOW LIVE WITH THEIR MOM, AND SHE DROPS THEM OFF AT MY HOUSE INSTEAD OF HIS EVERY TWO WEEKS.
BUT YOU SEEM TO BE DOING A GREAT JOB! KEEP IT UP, AND KEEP YOUR HOPES UP. IF THEY CAN'T EXCEPT THE FACT THAT YOUR RAISING YOUR KIDS. THEY DON'T DESERVE A GREAT GUY LIKE YOU.
I WAS RAPPED AT A YOUNG AGE BY AN OLDER MAN. EVENTUALLY HE STEPT UP AND CONFESSED. ONLY BECAUSE HE HAD LEFT ME FOR DEAD AND REALIZED I WAS STILL ALIVE AND HAD MADE THE NEWSPAPER. HE WAS ARRESTED AND PUT AWAY. HE IS NOW OUT AND WANTS TO SEE HIS SON. WHEN HE WAS RELEASED, I LET HIM MOVE IN AS A ROOMATE (I KNOW, ITS STUPID).
BUT TO GET TO MY POINT, WHY DO 95% OF MEN THINK THAT HAVING A CHILD AT A YOUNG AGE MAKES ME EASY? I STILL HAVEN'T SLEPT WITH ANYONE YET (YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN)
I STILL CONSIDER MYSELF A VIGIN (OBVIOUSLY AM NOT). BUT I WANT TO THIKN THAT THE NEXT PERSON I SLEEP WITH IS THE ONE WHO TAKES ME VIRGINITY. IS THAT WRONG?
WHY DOES EVERYONE JUDGE ME FOR THE FACT THAT I HAVE A CHILD?
I DON'T THINK THAT HAVING A CHILD MAKES ME EASY!!!
WELL I MET A MAN IN A DIFFERENT COUNTRY, AND HE IS THE BIGEST SWEETHEART, AND HE IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEED. BUT I AM NOT WILLING TO LEAVE MY HOME. HE SAYS HE WOULD BE WILLING TO COME TO ME, BUT I CAN NEVER BE SURE. I GUESS ITS A MATTER OF IF YOU ARE WILLING TO GIVE EEVRYTHIG UP FOR THIS MAN. BUT CHOOSE WISELY. MY MOTHER MOVED ACROSS THE COUNTRY WITH A MAN, AND SEPERATE AND ENDED UP COMING BACK. BE CAREFUL, AND GOOD LUCK!
OH TRUST ME, AGE DOES NOT MAKE ANY DIFFERENCE. MY SON'S FATHER IS 43 YEARS OLD, AND IS STILL READY TO GO. AGE IS A STATE OF MIND. YOUR ONLY AS OLD AS YOU ACT.
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RE: No Pics... No Response???
I used to have pics up, but some idiot recognized me on the street and became a stalker, so now I only send pics to people who message me first.