People are generally attracted to confidence. Perhaps when you were carrying less weight, you had more self confidence? Maybe they were attracted to an confident aura moreso than the number on a scale.
I am surrounded by a very eclectic and diverse group of friends and acquaintances with varying viewpoints, lifestyle choices, backgrounds, and everything in between. My life is rich and my mind continues to be stretched on a daily basis.
Whether TomCat and Rainbow were real-life partners or not, I don't care. To each their own.
If memory serves me, Rainbow had views that some on here found offensive. Nothing new there. There was continuing back and forth verbal sparring. TomCat felt like his Rainbow was being unjustly bullied.
TomCat announced one day that Rainbow had committed suicide due to the bullying she received here on CS. There was one tiny problem with that though....he forgot to tell her that she committed suicide. She came onto CS and was seemingly oblivious to the fact that she was dead.
Ali....why are so many of these polls on CS about a woman's appearance? What are we not looking for her qualities, talents, intelligence, etc? Why is it so challenging in 2020 to look past a woman's makeup, clothing, size, and see her for a person?
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RE: In the past when I was skinny women would chat me up...!
Mongo smart cookie too.