Thanks for your answer Scubadiva... I have no ideea if he is married .. he told me many times that he is single.. when I went to Amsterdam last year he invited me to his mother house for 10 minutes.. I said Hello to his mother, we had a cup of tea and that was it..His mother does not speak English .. I do not speak Dutch..so it was not much communication .. During our chating het old me that he lives with mother during the weekand in tha weekdn he goess to his apartament, he sais he rents an apartment somewhere in Amsterdam..
I think that the man is confused... and he needs to be honest and finish the relationship first before starting a new one..It is impossible to start a new and healthy relationship when you are still atached to a different person...You can be badly hurt because the man can tell you anytime that he is not over his ex...
I wonder why it is so difficult to find a nice man that wants a real loving relationship...? I believe that " Every human being wants to be loved, something in our nature cries out to be loved by another. I am strongly convinced that marriage is designed to meet that need for deep intimacy and love." Yet... nice men are hard to find.. why??
Please keep your silly comments for yoursself....I really do not need your commnets.. If you can not give a kind advise please keep your comments for yourself..Thanks Elena
I live in Austrlia and I met on line a "nice" man from Amsterdam in Nov 2010..Sweet talking started... I thought I found the love of my life.. He was telling me that he hardly waits to meet me and to be with me ...In dec 2010 I flew to Europe to my family of origin and I hoped to meet this man. He promised to visit me but never came.. In March 2011 I went to Amsterdam and I met him. When I saw him it was a different story.. He forget about being in love with me.. about all the sweet talking. He was polite ..we had a few meal together we went for a few hours of walking every day... and that was it... at the airport he told me that he likes me..... ??? well.. after that he said he will visit me at my parents house where I was living while I was in Europe...but he never came..
After a while I lost my patience and I told him that he is not serios and he is a jerk..He got upset.. we emailed each other very rarely after that for a few months.
In Oct 2011 I returned to Australia and he started emailing me daily asking me how I am ,about the weather... and things like that. He still emails me daily but if I ask him what he wants to do, if he wants to start a realtionship with me he is quiet and says nothing. He waits for a few days when he writes again asking me about the weather ...!!!!!
Please help me.. We have been talking since 2009 and he still does not want a relationship with me. What should I do? Any nice men there?? Please helpme with your honest answer? why he act this way? why he is not sincere with me? Why he does not want to makea decision??
Thank you very much for your great help.. I am a nice and sincere lady who wants a long term relationship.....
Every human being wants to be loved, something in our nature cries out to be loved by another. I am strongly convinced that marriage is designed to meet that need for deep intimacy and love.
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Why nice men are difficult to find?
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