I went back to read The Secret Santa thread by Kaybee and it did say Friday Dec 18th and 19th she was going to post a thread where people could reveal their Secret Santa gifts.
I'm not anyones secret Santa but I enjoyed following the thread though.
The year my mother had passed away and during her funeral is when he apologized to me for how he had treated me as I got older.Of course he was drunk at the time when he made that apology.
I accepted his apology but I moved on with my life and had nothing further to do with him.I was 24 when my mother passed away.
What was sad about the whole thing was that he was a recovered alcoholic and later on he began drinking again for on reason or another was probably why he became nasty with me.Thank goodness he never hit me or my mother.He was never verbally abusive with me either.Mostly it was his actions.
His drinking was one of the reasons I had home when I was 16.
Obviously alcohol can make someone do some strange things.
At the time my mother had first married him he was good to me and her. Him and I used to go fishing together and the time that him and I canned green tomato relish.That has stuck with me for a long time.
When he passed away I found out from one of his adult children that he had put me down as one of his heirs in his will.He couldn't had disliked me too awfully much if he did that.I still think it was the alcohol doing all the talking.
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RE: Do guys prefer high or low maintenance women? explain answer
serena I agree.I've never been materialist cause to me they have never been that all important to me.Possessions can usually be replaced but people can't.