Remember the days when dating sites

Where the majority of members were the lonely the over looked, The forever single, The late Bloomers the aestheticly below average..

Now it seems the undesirables like me have nowhere to go...All I seem to see these days on dating sites is Average but mostly above average folks ordering self appreciation like they would a Pizza people using dating sites like they use Ebay/Amazon or having their weekly shop delivered to their doors = "Oh I like the look of that, Im having it"

Even dating sites called ugly in their titles are full of average or above average looking people. Calling themselfs ugly so they can hear someone tell them You NOT ugly your lovely...
Lets face it, the average person if they could be bothered to get off their entitled arse could walk out of their back door strike up a conversation with any average Guy/Woman and in no time could if desired arrange a a coffee or even a date....

So its like my last bastion of hope is dwindling...After all there are 2 Golden Rules to successful dating are.

1. Be good looking
2. Don't Be Ugly

Now all those who never ever relied on there looks will all say its about confidence and personality...And work on your self improvement.....Like they ever did LOL

Anyway,,,,Gripe over. Back to chopping firewood ...haha

Am i slightly Bitter? Errrrr just a bit!! is that so surprising? Ask yourself if you never received validation from the opposite sex how would you think you would feel? no Gay responses

Any woman who gets angry reading this, Don't worry about it, I'm used to anger when I dare to complain.....But please refrain from platitudes or telling me I'm wrong,, As i've prob spent more years alone in body n mind than you and had time to observe from the outside the reality of my existence.

Nothing will ever change as in a conscious compassionate reasoning and acceptance type of way ,, But luckily future technology will spare the likes of me emerging on this earth Thereby sparing everyone from knowing, Having to know or even worse having to live with imperfection and total undesirability.


So yeah, As with no dating sites for the undatable There are also not many places in anyones hearts or minds for my kind of misshaped undesirable but feeling & capable of loving people left...
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Comments (17)

Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
You think it must be easy for me to say but there are people that were born with missing body parts and they still rise above their physical challenges.

Google this man.... nick vujicic...an Australian motivational speaker
He is happy in his own skin and you have that right to be.
"Poor Poor Pitiful Me"

Well I lay my head on the railroad track
Waiting on the Double E
But the train don't run by here no more
Poor poor pitiful me

Poor poor pitiful me
Poor poor pitiful me
Oh these boys won't let me be
Lord have mercy on me
Woe woe is me

Well I met a man out in Hollywood
Now I ain't naming names
Well he really worked me over good
Just like Jesse James
Yes he really worked me over good
He was a credit to his gender
Put me through some changes Lord
Sort of like a Waring blender

Poor poor pitiful me
Poor poor pitiful me
Oh these boys won't let me be
Lord have mercy on me
Woe woe is me

Well I met a boy in the Vieux Carres
Down in Yokohama
He picked me up and he threw me down
He said "Please don't hurt me Mama"

Poor poor pitiful me
Poor poor pitiful me
Oh these boys won't let me be
Lord have mercy on me
Woe woe is me

Poor poor poor me
Poor poor pitiful me
Poor poor poor me
Poor poor pitiful me
Poor poor poor me
Poor poor pitiful me
Blue

I can almost see your face being lit up with such delight.
What a poem to compliment the moment.laugh laugh
Prof it's a song Google it

rolling on the floor laughing
I sure will blue laugh laugh

Sounds like a poem though.
Blue

Putting humour and joke aside.
This is very serious issue, sometimes doing good can be very harmful.
You just have to apologise when you hurt another unintentionally.

Whatever we think, people are people.
Blue!
Blue!
Blue!!!!!
Ah such anger dear blogger......funny though, you post a blog, such as this.....then only lash out at those you call arrogant, and all the while totally unresponsive to those who have actually commented unbiased and honestly. .....and this is what creates your own reaction. You dwell on those who answer negatively and oblivious to any other. Congratulations for a job well done doh laugh
Think Tenneresque cool
"the undesirables like me"

What kind of attitude is that mate? Who says so after all? Some chick? 99.982% of all the women on the planet? Well, who gives a turd what women say/think? There's so many of them.

So, listen here pal; you are what you think you are. The sooner you learn that, the better off you'll be.
popcorn Paul wink
<3 Enigma <3

Yes, love?
Shhh giggle
That's why I had added my second comment the way I did. He creates his own, what can ya do? dunno
-Enigma

All sort on the planet love. All sorts. xx
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