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Aug 2, 2015 6:25 PM CST Longest being single?
tobecontinued
tobecontinuedtobecontinuedLimerick, Ireland1 Threads 11 Posts
Just wondering what's an acceptable time period for being single and if someone is over that does it mean that they suck at dating or other issues at play? Just thinking here lol.
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Aug 2, 2015 6:31 PM CST Longest being single?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
tobecontinued: Just wondering what's an acceptable time period for being single and if someone is over that does it mean that they suck at dating or other issues at play? Just thinking here lol.


wave No rule book there. Thirteen years for me, with two couple
of years relationships in between. I suck at dating, so much I
don't want to do it. There are better experts here than I.cheers
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Aug 2, 2015 6:32 PM CST Longest being single?
Brannigan70
Brannigan70Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland35 Threads 2,339 Posts
tobecontinued: Just wondering what's an acceptable time period for being single and if someone is over that does it mean that they suck at dating or other issues at play? Just thinking here lol.
It's like riding a bike , pardon the comparison . Ye never forget how it's done laugh
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Aug 2, 2015 6:33 PM CST Longest being single?
if the priest is bending over you reading you the lasts rites....then i recon your,ve left it to late.......does this help....???????dunno laugh
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Aug 2, 2015 6:37 PM CST Longest being single?
tobecontinued
tobecontinuedtobecontinuedLimerick, Ireland1 Threads 11 Posts
I guess your just hoping to meet a female version of you when it comes to dating on here lol, I wish you well. Do you for yourself know why, or more to the point make easy excuses as to why you are bad at dating, not judging. I being a farmer use to blame that but I'm the problem at the end of the day.
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Aug 2, 2015 6:38 PM CST Longest being single?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
Brannigan70: It's like riding a bike , pardon the comparison . Ye never forget how it's done


Anyone can stay upright on a Bike, when it's moving it wants
to stay upright by itself(Newton)Riding and controlling it is a
different skill set. Now I have wandered off the topic.cheers
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Aug 2, 2015 6:42 PM CST Longest being single?
tobecontinued: I guess your just hoping to meet a female version of you when it comes to dating on here lol, I wish you well. Do you for yourself know why, or more to the point make easy excuses as to why you are bad at dating, not judging. I being a farmer use to blame that but I'm the problem at the end of the day.
yes..i have a valid excuse.....my wife doesent like me dateing...it upset her.....dunno why.................
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Aug 2, 2015 6:45 PM CST Longest being single?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
tobecontinued: I guess your just hoping to meet a female version of you when it comes to dating on here lol, I wish you well. Do you for yourself know why, or more to the point make easy excuses as to why you are bad at dating, not judging. I being a farmer use to blame that but I'm the problem at the end of the day.


Oh I don't mind. First, I guess I would be considered a loner.
Lived in the city I'm in only three years, don't know anybody.
Second I don't wish to go to a Bar/Pub, I drink rarely these days,
plus I had enough of it when I was young, so not very social.
Third(and I only just figured this), I might have a slight fear
of another relationship. That's all I can say I guess.cheers
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Aug 2, 2015 6:54 PM CST Longest being single?
all jokes aside....theres no time limit...go out there....and find what your looking for.......jmo.
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Aug 2, 2015 6:56 PM CST Longest being single?
tobecontinued
tobecontinuedtobecontinuedLimerick, Ireland1 Threads 11 Posts
I can understand where your coming from and your reasons. I'd have thought having a few drinks would be a help but that can also put the demons to work, anxiety etc's.
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Aug 2, 2015 6:57 PM CST Longest being single?
Brannigan70
Brannigan70Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland35 Threads 2,339 Posts
pedalguy59: Anyone can stay upright on a Bike, when it's moving it wants
to stay upright by itself(Newton)Riding and controlling it is a
different skill set. Now I have wandered off the topic.
What a strange occurrence wandering off topic , it's never happened before giggle
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Aug 2, 2015 6:59 PM CST Longest being single?
tobecontinued
tobecontinuedtobecontinuedLimerick, Ireland1 Threads 11 Posts
As Bono might say I still haven't found what I'm looking for lol. Your opinions are valued all the same.
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Aug 2, 2015 7:00 PM CST Longest being single?
Draegoneer
DraegoneerDraegoneerPrudenville, Michigan USA1 Threads 1,371 Posts
tobecontinued: Just wondering what's an acceptable time period for being single and if someone is over that does it mean that they suck at dating or other issues at play? Just thinking here lol.



About 6 years for me. I can't say there's a time limit as much as maybe there are some things people know they can no longer allow from past relationships.

It can shrink the prospects window and there fore, take longer. If online is a primary route to achieve a goal, many other factors can come into play as well.
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Aug 2, 2015 7:03 PM CST Longest being single?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
tobecontinued: I can understand where your coming from and your reasons. I'd have thought having a few drinks would be a help but that can also put the demons to work, anxiety etc's.


Yes a few drinks help, but then I'd never shut up.laugh
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Aug 2, 2015 7:03 PM CST Longest being single?
tobecontinued: I can understand where your coming from and your reasons. I'd have thought having a few drinks would be a help but that can also put the demons to work, anxiety etc's.
drink and reason..dont go together...stay off the booze....and face facts.
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Aug 2, 2015 7:04 PM CST Longest being single?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
truheart1941: drink and reason..dont go together...stay off the booze....and face facts.


thumbs up
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Aug 2, 2015 7:06 PM CST Longest being single?
.........@pedal...hi matey. what can one say...???
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Aug 2, 2015 7:06 PM CST Longest being single?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
tobecontinued: Just wondering what's an acceptable time period for being single and if someone is over that does it mean that they suck at dating or other issues at play? Just thinking here lol.

I don't give a tuppeny toss what the general population might think is an acceptable time period for being single.

It's been my choice to be single, not anyone else's.

And if I were to choose not to be single, it's no one's business but mine and the person who might choose to be not single with me. grin
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Aug 2, 2015 7:08 PM CST Longest being single?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
truheart1941: .........@pedal...hi matey. what can one say...???


I have said lots, way too much.dunno
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Aug 2, 2015 7:13 PM CST Longest being single?
jac_the_gripper: I don't give a tuppeny toss what the general population might think is an acceptable time period for being single.

It's been my choice to be single, not anyone else's.

And if I were to choose not to be single, it's no one's business but mine and the person who might choose to be not single with me.
...hi Jac....hows your drinking problem coming along...??????hole hole hole hole giggle
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