People on the site can hide their profile at anytime. When this happens, you will not be able to see them anywhere on the site.
If they are in your inbox, their photo will say "hidden" on it. And you will no longer be able to write to them.
Next Up: How to hide or un-hide your profile »In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Then click on Upload Photos in the dropdown menu.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Upload Photos in the list of links.
Then follow the directions below for iPhone or android.
Follow the directions above.
Click the "Choose File" button and a file dialog window will appear on your screen.
Find the image file on your computer that you wish to upload, and click on it, and then click on the "Open" button in the dialog. The file dialog window will disappear.
Then click the "Upload Photo" button.
Follow the directions above.
Then click the "Choose File" button.
Then click on "Photo Library".
Then click on "All Photos" (or "Camera Roll").
Then find the photo you want to upload, and click on it.
Then click the blue "Upload Photo" button.
Follow the directions above.
Then click the "Choose File" button.
Then click on "Documents" (or it could also say "Files" or "Photos").
Then click on "Photos", then click on "Photos" again. (not all Androids will have this step).
Then find the photo you want to upload, and click on it.
Then click the blue "Upload Photo" button.
Your photo will appear right below the "Upload" Box.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click on Change my Password in the list of links.
Type in your "Old Password", and type in your desired "New Password" in the 2 boxes.
Then click on the "Change Password" button.
If you click the Log Out button, your profile will no longer say "Online Now".
If you don't Logout, your profile may say that you are "Online Now" for up to 30 minutes after you leave the site.
Click here to learn how to Logout »No, you cannot block people from viewing your profile.
You can block people from sending you Email and eCards.
You can also block groups of people from specific locations, ages, etc. from sending you Email and eCards.
It's best to take the Views lightly and ignore those in whom you have no interest.
Each person that views your profile, can only show up in your Who's Viewed Me List ONE TIME.... no matter how many times they view your profile.
If your email is invalid, please Correct your Email Address ».
If your email is valid, and our system is wrong, then please Contact Us and let us know, and we will fix it, so that you don't keep getting that message.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Upload Photos in the list of links.
You will see a list of the photos you have already uploaded.
Find the photo you want to delete and click on the " Delete Photo" button.
You will be taken to a new page where you can confirm that you want to delete the photo.
Click the "Yes, Delete" button at the bottom of the page.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click the Hide Profile link in the list of links.
Then click the radio button that says "Show my profile on the site", and click the "Save Changes" button.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click the Blocked List link in the list of links.
A list of the people you have Blocked will appear.
Then click the checkbox in the right column of the Members you want to UN-BLOCK.
Then click the " Unblock Checked" button at the bottom of the page.
Then click on the "Trash ()" icon to the right of the Members you want to UN-BLOCK.
This will delete them from your Blocked List, and they WILL be able to contact you again.
You can't send mail to other members until your profile has been approved. You may start using all the features of the site as soon as your profile is approved.
All features of the site are TOTALLY FREE TO USE. There are no surprise fees or hidden charges for sending or receiving messages, or any other feature.
Click here for more about profile approval ».
Profiles on the site need to be valid, and reflect decency and good taste. Profiles that don't follow the rules will NOT be approved and will be deleted without notice.
Click here to read the Profile Rules »
Click here to read the Photo Rules »
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on Mailbox in the list of links.
A list of your Messages will appear.
Then click the checkbox in the right column of the Messages you want to delete from your list.
Then click the " Delete Checked" button at the bottom of the page.
Then click on the "Trash ()" icon to the right of the Messages you want to delete from your list.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click on the Edit Signup Info link
Change your birthdate (to change your age) and click the "Save Changes" button.
NOTE: The directions for this are on the Upload Photos page, on the bottom of the page.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Upload Photos in the list of links.
Scroll down to the bottom of the page where it says "Email your photos to us", and follow the instructions there.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click on Edit Block Settings in the list of links.
Then select the criteria of members that you want to block (by Location, Age Range, Gender, Marital Status, etc.). Then click the "Save Changes" button.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click on the Edit Location link, fill in your information, and click the "Save Changes" button at the bottom of the page.
When you are viewing a members profile, click on the " Send a message" button.
Then type in your Message.
Click the "Send Message" button at the bottom of the page.
Your message will be sent to the member’s Onsite Inbox. And a copy of your message will go to your Outbox.
Or... this if for members you know their username, or they are on your Favorites List or Who's Viewed Me List:
Go to your Mail Inbox, and click on the Compose New Message button at the top right of the page.
Then type in the user's Username exactly. And press the "Go to Next Step" button.
In case you do not know their username, your Favorites List will be loaded at the bottom of the page. (You can click the tab that says "Viewed" to load your "Who's Viewed Me List" instead.)
Click on a user in your Favorites List at the bottom of the page.
Then type in your Message.
Click the "Send Message" button at the bottom of the page.
Your message will be sent to the member’s Onsite Inbox. And a copy of your message will go to your Outbox.
In the top nav bar, click on the Meet Me link.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the link that says Meet Me.
We will show you profiles in your area, one at a time.
After you press one of the 3 buttons, you will advance to the next profile. And repeat the process with the next user.
If you click on "Yes", they will receive a "Like" from you in their Likes Inbox, and they will be notified that they have received a "Like".
If you click on "No" or "Maybe", they will NOT know, and they will not be notified. But they will show up in your No's and Maybe's lists for you to re-visit later (and possibly re-consider your choice).
NOTE: The directions for this are on the Upload Photos page, on the bottom of the page.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Upload Photos in the list of links.
Scroll down to the bottom of the page where it says "Mail your photos to us", and follow the instructions there.
We will scan your photos for you and upload them to your profile. We provide this service FREE of charge to our members!
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on Mailbox in the list of links.
A list of your incoming messages will appear.
To view a message, click on the subject of the message.
A NEW message (that you have not opened yet) will have a yellow background, and will have a icon to the left of it
A message you have OPENED will have a white/gray background.
A staff message will always have a red stamp on it that says "CS Staff". Like this:
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Upload Photos in the list of links.
You will see a list of the photos you have already uploaded.
Find the photo you want, and click on the "Make Primary" button.
This will set the photo as your main photo. Which means it will appear in search results, and it will be the big photo on your profile page.
Yes you can.
In your Outbox... the Messages that have been opened by the recipients, will have a checkmark to the left of them. the word opened next to them.
Next Up: How to view your Outbox »