In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click the Blocked List link in the list of links.
A list of the people you have Blocked will appear.
Then click the checkbox in the right column of the Members you want to UN-BLOCK.
Then click the " Unblock Checked" button at the bottom of the page.
Then click on the "Trash ()" icon to the right of the Members you want to UN-BLOCK.
This will delete them from your Blocked List, and they WILL be able to contact you again.
No, you cannot block people from viewing your profile.
You can block people from sending you Email and eCards.
You can also block groups of people from specific locations, ages, etc. from sending you Email and eCards.
It's best to take the Views lightly and ignore those in whom you have no interest.
Each person that views your profile, can only show up in your Who's Viewed Me List ONE TIME.... no matter how many times they view your profile.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click on Edit Block Settings in the list of links.
Then select the criteria of members that you want to block (by Location, Age Range, Gender, Marital Status, etc.). Then click the "Save Changes" button.
You can block members by gender, location, marital status, or age range. But once in a while, you may want to contact someone outside your location or age range.
If you do email someone that you have blocked, then they won't be able to contact you back.
So we have designed an "override" where if you contact them first, then they can contact you back.
Sometimes members get likes and respond with an email that says "I'm not interested". This email will trigger the "override" and allow them to email you.
Click here to learn how to block members by age range or location »
When you are viewing a members profile, click on the " Send a message" button.
Then type in your Message.
Click the "Send Message" button at the bottom of the page.
Your message will be sent to the member’s Onsite Inbox. And a copy of your message will go to your Outbox.
Or... this if for members you know their username, or they are on your Favorites List or Who's Viewed Me List:
Go to your Mail Inbox, and click on the Compose New Message button at the top right of the page.
Then type in the user's Username exactly. And press the "Go to Next Step" button.
In case you do not know their username, your Favorites List will be loaded at the bottom of the page. (You can click the tab that says "Viewed" to load your "Who's Viewed Me List" instead.)
Click on a user in your Favorites List at the bottom of the page.
Then type in your Message.
Click the "Send Message" button at the bottom of the page.
Your message will be sent to the member’s Onsite Inbox. And a copy of your message will go to your Outbox.
When you are viewing a members profile, click on the " Send Flower" button.
Then choose a flower and type in your Message.
Click the "Send Flower" button at the bottom of the page.
Your message will be sent to the member’s Onsite Inbox. And a copy of your message will go to your Outbox.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on Mailbox in the list of links.
A list of your incoming messages will appear.
To view a message, click on the subject of the message.
A NEW message (that you have not opened yet) will have a yellow background, and will have a icon to the left of it
A message you have OPENED will have a white/gray background.
A staff message will always have a red stamp on it that says "CS Staff". Like this:
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on Outbox in the list of links.
A list of your sent messages will appear.
To view a message, click on the subject of the message.
The Messages that have been opened by the recipients, will have a checkmark to the left of them. the word opened next to them.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on Mailbox in the list of links.
A list of your Messages will appear.
Then click the checkbox in the right column of the Messages you want to delete from your list.
Then click the " Delete Checked" button at the bottom of the page.
Then click on the "Trash ()" icon to the right of the Messages you want to delete from your list.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on Outbox in the list of links.
A list of your Sent Messages will appear.
Then click the checkbox in the right column of the Messages you want to delete from your list.
Then click the " Delete Checked" button at the bottom of the page.
Then click on the "Trash ()" icon to the right of the Messages you want to delete from your list.
Yes you can.
In your Outbox... the Messages that have been opened by the recipients, will have a checkmark to the left of them. the word opened next to them.
Next Up: How to view your Outbox »
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click on Edit Block Settings in the list of links.
Then choose the age range that you WANT TO HEAR FROM (anyone outside that age range will not be able to contact you). Then click the "Save Changes" button.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click on Edit Block Settings in the list of links.
Click the "Block" radio button next to the Locations you want to WANT TO BLOCK from contacting you.
Click the "Allow" radio button next to the Locations you want to allow to contact you.
Then click the "Save Changes" button at the bottom of the page.
You can't send mail to other members until your profile has been approved. You may start using all the features of the site as soon as your profile is approved.
All features of the site are TOTALLY FREE TO USE. There are no surprise fees or hidden charges for sending or receiving messages, or any other feature.
Click here for more about profile approval ».
Profiles on the site need to be valid, and reflect decency and good taste. Profiles that don't follow the rules will NOT be approved and will be deleted without notice.
Click here to read the Profile Rules »
Click here to read the Photo Rules »
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in list of links.
Then click on Site Notifications in the list of links.
Click the "Allow" radio button next to the types of mail notices you DO want to receive.
Click the "Block" radio button next to the types of mail notices you DON'T want to receive.
Then click the "Save Changes" button.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in list of links.
Then click on Site Notifications in the list of links.
Click the "Block" radio button next to the types of mail notices you DON'T want to receive.
Click the "Allow" radio button next to the types of mail notices you DO want to receive.
Then click the "Save Changes" button.
You can either click the " Like" button when viewing a member's profile, or you can use the Meet Me page.
The Meet Me page allows you to see a lot of members in your area. If you click the " Yes" button, it will result in a "Like" sent to the member.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on Likes in the list of links.
A list of your likes will appear.
A NEW Like (that you have not seen yet) will have a yellow background, and will have a icon to the left of it.
You can return the Like to a member, by clicking on the "Like them back" button next to their profile in the list. This will let them know that your interest is Mutual.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on Likes in the list of links.
A list of your members that have "Liked" you will appear.
Then click on the tab that says You Like on the top of the page.
A list of the Likes you sent, will appear.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on Likes in the list of links.
A list of your Likes will appear.
Then click the checkbox in the right column of the Likes you want to delete from your list.
Then click the " Delete Checked" button at the bottom of the page.
Then click on the "Trash ()" icon to the right of the Likes you want to delete from your list.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Inbox" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "Inbox". It will expand.
Then click on Likes in the list of links.
A list of your members that have "Liked" you will appear.
Then click on the tab that says You Like on the top of the page.
A list of the Likes you sent, will appear.
Then click the checkbox in the right column of the Likes you want to delete from your list.
Then click the " Delete Checked" button at the bottom of the page.
Then click on the "Trash ()" icon to the right of the Likes you want to delete from your list.