Dawn4ever: I agree with you CCiny , my parents also raised me that way. I dont believe in any shade of lies. Lies are lies. Yes being honest might be brutal for some but in the long run it is the only way to go. be it business or personal relations. The right people always will value you for your honesty and those who dont matter or want to be lied to will move on. and with my limited experience in life I think i rather those ppl move on ( they come with lots of drama ) :P
Hi Dawn, I have learned the hard way that if I'm brutally honest they claim that their feelings are hurt but if you sugar coat everything you say then you get accused of lying.No win situation.Then they shouldn't ask me a direct question cause I will give them a direct answer back.
Snookums3OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,174 posts
tomcatwarne: To be honest all the time is impossible, apart from appearing ridiculous, you would destroy some people, but some unempathic people would do this.
Did you see the film where everybody told the truth at all times, it illustrated how ridiculous this would make life.
tomcatwarne: To be honest all the time is impossible, apart from appearing ridiculous, you would destroy some people, but some unempathic people would do this.
Did you see the film where everybody told the truth at all times, it illustrated how ridiculous this would make life.
WEll then someone can label me a unempathic person then.So it's wrong to always tell the truth that lying every once and a while is ok?
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Ccincy: WEll then someone can label me a unempathic person then.So it's wrong to always tell the truth that lying every once and a while is ok?If you say so.
It's sometimes kinder and safer. If my partner looks rough itell her she is beaytiful, that's what I mean
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Ccincy: WEll then someone can label me a unempathic person then.So it's wrong to always tell the truth that lying every once and a while is ok?If you say so.
It's sometimes kinder and safer. If my partner looks rough itell her she is beaytiful, that's what I mean
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Ccincy: WEll then someone can label me a unempathic person then.So it's wrong to always tell the truth that lying every once and a while is ok?If you say so.
It's sometimes kinder and safer. If my partner looks rough itell her she is beaytiful, that's what I mean
StedanLiverpool, Merseyside, England UK1,780 posts
The tongue decides for itself...sometimes the brain does not engage the correct gear...hence the tongue twisters and manipulating bearers of so called reason.
Stedan: The tongue decides for itself...sometimes the brain does not engage the correct gear...hence the tongue twisters and manipulating bearers of so called reason.
Why does political figures come to mind right now.
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