Singles in South Africa

I found that people in South Africa are very reticent to go out and find interesting and like minded people. It is as if when they hit 40 life has come and gone. There is no sense of adventure or a love for life. They want to settle down or just play around and won't even try to make life interesting and fun. Every day is the first day of the rest of your life and don't let it all pass by until you are too old and decrepit to start enjoying it. And men can't just be friends with women too, they need to have a sexual relationship from the word go. Why not try to get to know the person first and then take it from there. Do fun things together and see if you are compatible before you jump into a thing that can only bring heartache later. If you can't be friends first and enjoy things as a couple there is no future for you.

Most men in their 40's and 50's are either looking for someone to bed or to settle down to a life of monotony. Unfortunately many of them can only have fun when they are intoxicated. Why do they have to drink themselves stupid to have fun I have no idea. Wake up guys and live this wonderful life that you only have one chance to enjoy. Meet someone special and fun and do all you can to make it the best life ever.