What are you doing?
Is what you are doing what you always wanted to do?
Is it something you are passionate about?
Is it something you didn’t envisage, but have come to love or enjoy?
Is it something you always wanted, but now . . . .
Do you work to make a living
Or is work a part of your living?
I really didn't think I would get this far in the process, but thanks to the inspiration and motivation from previous blogs, this is proving to be quite an interesting venture.
I'm just waiting to see how long it will take before he realises that I am onto him
After all it took him all of 12 hours to phone me (of course, he is ACTUALLY from the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA but he is currently an engineer in the gold fields of ghana, cannot skype me, because he can't pick it up there. But don't despair, he is finishing his contract on 1st June, and will leave to return to empty arms in NEW YORK, AS SOON AS HE HAS RECEIVED HIS COMPENSATION . . . )
And ME????? I will be the lucky one to become his WIFE once I have helped him to invest his $25mil in car sales in sa
EAT YOUR HEARTS OUT
Hmmm
I'm just trying to figure out how an American, working in ghana, has a South African accent?????
Just conincidence I'm sure
So you have been sitting on the singles site for ages, desperately hoping to find someone interesting enough while at the same time, (of course) a total dream, potentially good in bed, close enough for regular dates, a good sense of humour, sensitive . . .essentially . . . a DREAM BOAT
(I'm not sure they exist
but whatever!!!)
Everything is running great online, you've been chatting in private, maybe even on skype, but now it's crunch time . . . now you get to meet, face to face. Both of you are sceptical because of all the scammers out there and want to know that you are in fact dealing with a REAL person . . . so you arrange (da da da daaa) the REAL DATE . . .
You been gearing up to the great moment, counted down the days on the calender, spoken about this FANTASTIC person
you're going to meet, Started planning your wedding and the great future you will have together . . .and then on the morning the auspicious date, you wake up to discover . . .
There are at LEAST ten midgets hamering around in your head,
Someone opened the water works in you nostrils,
Your eyes could do with a pound of raw steak to reduce the swelling,
You sound like something from the sequel to Star Trek,
and to crown it all,
Someone plastered a doughnut on your dose during da night
And at this stage the great dilemma is upon you:
Do you :
A:......Call up your date and try to postphone, at the risk of being labelled a scammer ? ? ? 
B:......Just not pitch for the date, and then mail him/her with details of some or other disaster which struck ? ? ?
C:......Do a MAJOR disaster relief operation, dope yourself up with any and all meds you can lay your hands on, and go anyway in the hopes that the wonder-man(woman) won't notice, and still think you're cute 
Please note that now REAL persons were harmed in the making of this blog
I've been doing some research, but seem to be no closer to knowing what I need to know.
Some of you might have more experience in the field of HEV, or plug-ins. (actually, I'm sure most of you do)
The options are very limited in SA, but I want opinions on what you have experienced, personally or via friends on the different models.... just some basic feed back.
If you are an enthusiast, your input will be appreciated . . .
Thanks
I'm greedy . . . I like a lot . . . so to be fair, I've limited this to the top three wishes.
This could be something you want RIGHT NOW or it could be something you want sometime down the line . . .
So here goes . . . .
No. 1
To spend free time with friends and family, just chilling together
No. 2
Lots of holidays, at beach, country, and mountains local and international . . . hiking, camping, touring, etc
No. 3
To understand my children, not an easy task, and MEN(impossible???????)
SOOOO . . . . what's yours????
This blog was inspired by Danielangelvega . . . (nice blog)
I thought it would be interesting to determine how low down on the list of additional languages, English is for some of our bloggers especially, but also for our silent background cheering squad.
It might even help us(HL) to be more tolerant of less than perfect spelling and sentence structure
So . . . just for interest sake, list your Home language (HL), followed by any additional language(AL) in the order of fluency/most commonly used.
Here's mine:
HL - English (Fluent)
AL1 - Afrikaans (Fluent)
AL2 - French (Very basic)
Here's to you
We constantly complain about how boring the blogs are (yet we keep returning to it)
We complain about how there aren't any real men or women out here
We complain about the lack of emotion and love and compassion from those around us
We complain about anything we can think of . . .
YETWithout knowing the facts, there is a consistent rally to the support of anyone who indicates a need of support.
This comes from people who don't know each other based on the fact that they haven't YET met . . .
If this is not a perfect demonstration of love and compassion which transcends all boundaries set by man . . .
then I DON'T KNOW WHAT IS . . . .
Fellow CS Bloggers
I SALUTE YOU ALL
Some days are just there to kick you in the teeth, and this has been one of them.
So I am in need of a healthy dose of cheer and humour. . .
and make that a double
And of course some of those famous hugs please
From what I remember, this is the best place to get it.
Life has an amazing knack of balancing the scales . . .
sometimes we think things are sooo bad and then suddenly something happens which brings a smile. The converse could also be true.
We had a death in our family a week ago.
That in itself was heartbreaking for all of us, but there was also great good which came from it, and I suspect that some more will come from it too.
It's not always easy to acknowledge the good within a difficult situation, but for some reason, when I look, there always seems to be one . . . and I am eternally grateful for that.
For the first time in ages we are having rain today . . .
and as usual, the first thought that comes to mind is coffee/hot chocolate
, a soppy movie
and a warm snuggle
Any other ideas?????
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