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Patience

Another oldie but goodie!!!

There was once a man and woman who had been married for more than 60 years.
They had shared everything. They had talked about everything.
They kept no secrets from each other except that the old woman had a shoebox in the top of her closet that she cautioned her husband never to open or ask her about.
For all of these years, he had never thought about the box, but one day the little old woman got very sick and the doctor said she would not recover.
In trying to sort out their affairs, the little old man took down the shoe box and took it to his wife's bedside. She agreed that it
was time that he should know what was in the box.
When he opened it, he found two crocheted doilies and a stack of money totaling $25,000. He asked her about the contents. "When we were to be married, " she said, "my grandmother told me the secret of a happy marriage was to never argue. She told me that if I ever got angry with you, I should just keep quiet and crochet a doily."

The little old man was so moved; he had to fight back tears. Only two precious doilies were in the box. She had only been angry with him two times in all those years of living and loving. He almost burst with happiness.

"Honey," he said "that explains the doilies, but what about all of this money? Where did it come from?" "Oh," she said, "that's the money I made from selling the doilies."

A PRAYER....
Dear Lord,
I pray for Wisdom to understand my man;
Love to forgive him;
And Patience for his moods.
Because Lord, if I pray for Strength,
I'll beat him to death.
AMEN

Anybody for crochet lessons? :-)
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I believe I can Fly ...one of my favorite songs

One of my favorite songs with my favorite quote ... If I can see it, then I can do it, if I just believe it there's nothing to it.




I will be in Pittsburgh tomorrow morning and it is cold there now(34 degrees F), but can't wait to see my Bff.banana

Wishing everyone a Fantastic Weekend!! Enjoy!!
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Pics - lol

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Subject: Life ......AND THEN IT IS WINTER

An interesting email I received......

You know. . . time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware of the passing years. It seems just yesterday that I was young, just married and embarking on my new life with my mate. Yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I wonder where all the years went. I know that I lived them all. I have glimpses of how it was back then and of all my hopes and dreams.
But, here it is... the winter of my life and it catches me by surprise...How did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my youth go? I remember well seeing older people through the years and thinking that those older people were years away from me and that winter was so far off that I could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like.
But, here it is...my friends are retired and getting grey...they move slower and I see an older person now. Some are in better and some worse shape than me...but, I see the great change...Not like the ones that I remember who were young and vibrant...but, like me, their age is beginning to show and we are now those older folks that we used to see and never thought we'd be. Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the day! And taking a nap is not a treat anymore... it's mandatory! Cause if I don't on my own free will... I just fall asleep where I sit!
And so...now I enter into this new season of my life unprepared for all the aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do things that I wish I had done but never did!! But, at least I know, that though the winter has come, and I'm not sure how long it will last...this I know, that when it's over on this earth...its over. A new adventure will begin!
Yes, I have regrets. There are things I wish I hadn't done...things I should have done, but indeed, there are many things I'm happy to have done. It's all in a lifetime.
So, if you're not in your winter yet...let me remind you, that it will be here faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to accomplish in your life please do it quickly! Don't put things off too long!! Life goes by quickly. So, do what you can today, as you can never be sure whether this is your winter or not! You have no promise that you will see all the seasons of your life...so, live for today and say all the things that you want your loved ones to remember...and hope that they appreciate and love you for all the things that you have done for them in all the years past!!

"Life" is a gift to you. The way you live your life is your gift to those who come after. Make it a fantastic one.

LIVE IT WELL! ENJOY TODAY! DO SOMETHING FUN! BE HAPPY !
HAVE A GREAT DAY


Remember "It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver.
LIVE HAPPY IN 2013!


LASTLY, CONSIDER THE FOLLOWING: TODAY IS THE OLDEST YOU'VE EVER BEEN, YET THE YOUNGEST YOU'LL EVER BE SO - ENJOY THIS DAY WHILE IT LASTS.

~Your kids are becoming you......but your grandchildren are perfect!

~Going out is good.. Coming home is better!

You forget names.... But it's OK because other people forgot they even knew you!!!

~The things you used to care to do, you no longer care to do, but you really do care that you don't care to do them anymore. ~You sleep better on a lounge chair with the TV blaring than in bed. It's called "pre-sleep".

You tend to use more 4 letter words ... "what?"..."when?"... ???

Now that you can afford expensive jewelry, it's not safe to wear it anywhere.

What used to be freckles are now liver spots.

You have 3 sizes of clothes in your closet.... 2 of which you will never wear.

But Old is good in some things: Old Songs, Old movies, and best of all, OLD FRIENDS!!
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Tropical Storm Chantal

My island is currently under a storm warning. Tropical Storm Chantal is passing by and blessing us with lots of rain. The center of the storm passed by around 8:00am and the time is now 8:53am So we are at home just waiting for the tail end of the storm to pass and hopefully no injuries to anyone. We expect rain and maybe thunderstorms for the next few hours. Luckily we still have power so just wanted to say hi to everyone. Hope you are having a great day!


Storm Clouds
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Sun trying to peek through the clouds
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This is my Now

Last night was an emotional and reflective night for me. A night of tears and prayers as I finally dealt with a situation which I left unresolved for awhile. Tears and prayers!!!

But now I am resolved to live my life fully in the now!


teddybear
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Inspirational

A group of frogs were traveling through the woods, and two of them
fell into a deep pit. All the other frogs gathered around pit. When
they saw how deep the pit was, they told the two frogs that they
were as good as dead.
The two frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump up out of the
pit with all of their might. The other frogs kept telling them to stop,that they were as good as dead.
Finally, one of the frogs took heed to what the other frogs were
saying and gave up. He fell down and died. The other frog continued
to jump as hard as he could. Once again, the crowd of frogs yelled
at him to stop the pain and just die. He jumped even harder and
finally made it out.
When he got out, the other frogs said, "Did you not hear us?" The
frog explained to them that he was deaf. He thought they were
encouraging him the entire time.

This story teaches two lessons:
1. There is power of life and death in the tongue. An encouraging
word to someone who is down can lift them up and help them make
it through the day.
2. A destructive word to someone who is down can be what it takes
to kill them. Be careful of what you say. Speak life to those who
cross your path. The power of words ....it is sometimes hard to understand that an encouraging word can go such a long way.
Anyone can speak words that tend to rob another of the spirit to
continue in difficult times. Special is the individual who will take the time to encourage another.

Be special to others. Pass this on to someone you like. I did. Have a nice day!bouquet
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Joke for the Day!!

'The scene was a tiny mountain village in a remote section of West Virginia. An old mountaineer and his young wife were getting a divorce in the local court. But custody of the children was a problem.

The mother jumped to her feet and protested to the judge that since she had brought the children into this world, she should retain custody of them.

The old mountaineer also wanted custody of the children.

The judge asked for his side of the story and, after a long moment of silence, the mountaineer slowly rose from his chair and said, "Judge, when I put a quarter in a candy machine and a candy bar comes out, does it belong to me or the machine?"

teddybear rolling on the floor laughing wine
Have a Great Day!
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I gotta be me

My "ME" song for this year! The only way to be!!!






Have a Fantastic day! teddybear
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