"ALTERNATIVE WORLD FRIENDS"
It Is Sometimes.................................. Most Interesting........................................................ How Some People Can React........................ Or Do Not React..................But...................................I Guess They All Have Their ReasonsHere Below...............Is A Possible Example Of A Situation That Could Come Under These Circumstances
"You Are About To Go Through A Traumatic Experience"
"And.....It Being Just An........ "Off The Cuff"........... Remark?"
"You Tell Someone About It"
(Remember That...Up To This Moment?
(As Far As This Alternative World Is That We Are In...Here On This Site?....You Both Are)
"Alternative World Friends"
Later...After Telling This "Friend"...About What Youre About To Go Through?
You Get A Message From This... "Alternative World Friend"
Asking You... If He/She .....Can Put Up A Blog...... About What Youve Just Recently Told He/She
And Very Nicely...You Explain.... That Youd Prefer That They Dont...And Say "No"
The Next Day?
You Come On Line.............And Find That ....Your.... "Alternative World Friend?"
Has Put Up The Blog Anyway....Explaining Everything That Youre About To Go Through
Saying Everything...........Except The Name Of The Person That Told Them
So...Would You Get Angry At This Person?
After All...He/She Had Asked Your Permission To Do This
And You Had Said No
So...You Get More Than Angry.......Anybody Would...Wouldnt You Think?
And Guess What?....Now That You Are Angry At This Person...For Doing What They Did?
Your.............. "Alternative World Friend?"
Ignores You Entirely Now...And Has Never Talked To You Again
You Have Now Become The..... "Bad Guy"
Im Wondering
How Can Someone Become "The Bad Guy"
Over Something They Did Not Do?"
Comments (7)
If you followed their wishes and no blog; where's the problem?
Either way; I've had very few friends at any time in my life. The ones I have and knew, I felt I could trust with my life. They felt and still feel the same about me.
If it was truly a friend, I know the reasons would be primarily pure in their actions. Still a major violation of my wishes. Over time, for something of that nature(probably a very short time), all would be forgiven because heated discussions and venting would take place in strict, private circumstances.
Not all are forgiving even when things didn't happen. Something else has come to the surface in their thought processes. It could still go back to mostly normal again with time.
"This Is True"
"But He/She..Was The Cause"
(Why Ask)
(If You Were Going To Do It Anyway?).......................
"You Might Be Right"...................
"While What You Say May Be Possible?"
"I Look At It As"
"Doing Something The First Time?"......."Is The Hardest"
"The Second Time?"
"It Is Easier To Do"............................
"What Youve Said?"
"Is Exactly My Thinking"
"Youve Nailed It To A "T"................