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I've received plenty of letters myself proclaiming love or at least give me an opportunity from people who live in your area of the world. They have no financial means of leaving their country but are quite eager for me to spend my money calling them or buying a plane ticket. They apparently can't get a visa to visit me - and truly if someone is interested and has pursued me, then why am I put into the position of making the effort to take time off work etc., buy the ticket to visit them? If a man is so crazy over me and truly wants to be with me then I think that it shouldn't be me putting out all the money. As well, to travel to a country wherein women are not held in the same regard, I'd question my personal safety as well.
What really is the point in contacting people when you really have nothing to offer and there isn't much hope of you even coming to another country to be with that person?
THANKS ALOT ALL OF YOU FOR YOURS COMMENT
do you really believe that all of your "many women" are getting brainless, just when they look at your nice pic???
so in which woman then are you so in love???
just in the one who would reply differently and not reject you?
and that exactly is another point of all of those email "we" get
it just sounds already from the beginning like a draft, just copied and paste
are you applying for a new job???
there you can go into a copy shop...
not to believe what some guys are thinking
but maybe it's really just the culture which is simply too different
I'm sorry, but got really so sick of those emails, that I just blocked any email of those kind of countries
I take the risk, that I'll miss my "true Love" of one of them then
As well, I mentioned nothing about age in my post. A relationship within a few years difference doesn't bother me in the least and that wasn't the point of my post.
My point was, if in fact a male has no way of getting out of their country, what is the point in them contacting women outside of their country? They have admitted making low wages, they are unable to get a visa etc. - I'd hazard to say that they are simply looking for a meal ticket to a better life and truly in the need love doesn't really have much to do with their motives. They can proclaim all the love they want - I believe that can happen in time for some couples, but at least be honest and say what you seek. I'd have much more respect for that and truly sometimes relationships are not based on "love" but a whole bunch of other factors that are agreeable to two people.
For someone to proclaim marriage or love in their first email is lunacy and then say someone is "the one that they've been searching for forever" - if you're that into me than why wouldn't they at least already know my name? Seems logical to at least know the name of the person that you proclaim to love.
Hence my point - is quit the hogwash. Be real in what you desire and you may have better luck.