IS he really love me?

I'm not sure my boyfriend really love me or not, can anyone tell me how girls can know guys really love them?

Need some help.....

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My boyfriend told me i'm not ready to have a lover... why did he say to me like that?.... he knows i love him so much....kiss kiss burger pizza bowing bowing snowed in snowed in rollers
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I feel his love is not so heavy....kind of light.....
Maybe I'm aperson who really inlove with him...bouquet bouquet
K, thank you for your patience reading my blog...

If i'm very honest... I still dont have any ideas to handle the relationship better... all i know is i love, i even can love him with out dating...

You know, he told me, I'm not ready to have lover, maybe right but that's not mean that i'm not ready to love him, I love him!!


I know it's abit funny...or strange for some peoplegrin grin cheers


thanks...bouquet
"I still dont have any ideas to handle the relationship better..."

Well, you could just start learning while you're waiting? You gonna need it anyway... Just like people study to become surgeons or teachers, it would be wise to devote at least SOME time to study about relationships - your role, his role, your way of thinking and feeling, his way of thinking and feeling, and how it all comes together... It comes naturally to some people, but some could really benefit from a wise book or talking to someone who is in a happy and "proven" (so to say, even by many years) relationship already....
Okaycheers cheers I will try my best to keep the relationship better....or work out....

thanks again for advice....bouquet bouquet
calmheartseeks I love you, thanks for your advice..!! that's so kind of youangel angel

I can be a good friend with my boyfriend coz we started with good friendship but i can not imagine he will leave me alone one day.

Very honest thing is I love him and i also want to be with him oneday but i dont want anything mess up now coz i just feel too soon to mess up.

that's not mean that I dont love him, I do love him and i hope he feel the same way as well, Love is only need to love one another without tire right?

If he really love me, 3 years would be easy coz both of US pretty youngbouquet bouquet bouquet
he's not that young though? hehe... JK!
hey what happened? why do you suddenly have these thoughts in your mind just after he told you he loves you one week ago? but anyway, stay in touch with him always, and keep an eye on him! :)
just take it easy and keep cool, don't be worried so early, I hope things will be fine.
I love that bunny picture! Very sweet. I hope it's happy now.
Dear moonlove, no one can not stop you loving, and every action has a reaction hug hug
well first you have the distance moonie
this is what make it harder to observe that person
but just hang on there and use ur head
and woman have strong instict which could come in use.
takecare
Kasihhug hug
but you know, nothing more sweeter than loving him and loved by himhug hug cheers bouquet
Moonlove, hope you are okay. hug hug hug
If I want to treat Moonlove gently and with understanding, I will do that. A lot of people care about her and are careful not to stamp on her feelings.

By the way, I have told her exactly what you said, that she needed to meet him in person. I just didn't do it abrasively.

I am concerned as her profile has been cancelled/deleted. But why do I have to explain this to another?

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Well, guess she's back. laugh
Howie and Calmheart..rose rose happy place happy place snowed in snowed in snowed in snowed in santa waving santa waving bunny easter bonnet easter bonnet easter basket easter basket easter egg easter egg daisy daisy daisy

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Hi calmheart and howie...

merry Christmasgrin grin christmas happy christmas cool christmas cool santa waving santa waving christmas sad christmas sad grin grin
No one understnad me here..drinking drinking drinking drinking

If i tell the truth, I never been date with anyone...crying crying

all people told me to date with my boyfriend in early age...drinking drinking drinking

I would not do until next 3 years..blah blah hole hole


TY so much Calmheart and Howiebouquet
I don't think it's anyone's business, unless you want to tell us.

This is a very critical bunch. laugh

If you have never been out on a date, why not 'practice' by going out with some guys as friends before you meet Mr. Rare? Date's are no big deal...they are just spending time with someone doing something you both enjoy.

Anyway, your relationship is your affair! Merry Christmas~!
Moonie, there is nothing anywhere which says you have to go out on dates anyway. Its a free world, do whatever you want. You are not a sheep who follows some bible, are you..? And in any case, maybe in about 33 years you will still be here on CS, you will be able to put on your profile "54, never married, no children" and probably you will have turned to religeon for comfort by then.
I "turned" to religion at 17. I had one very long term (several years) relationship. I didn't have children because I wasn't married.

Your judgements are way off base but have fun with them - most people do.
HI! Howie, I'm not religion person but I do love God... I dont care religion people in this world doing...

I dont know sorry.. I just do want to do or date until next 3 years...

only next 3 yearsgrin no matter what..roll eyes roll eyes

after next 3 years..love love kiss kiss
clamheart, hehe

If Mr Rare( science reshearch ) knows... his face will like thisblues blues blues crying

I mean if he knows the way you advice me...bouquet bouquet


but i dont tell him...grin grin
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Moonie, it must be a big secret on here !
Come on Ms Calm, dont take so seriously ! And if you want to make any remarks based on my profile....feel free. I will try my best to endure the pain and suffering it will cause me.
Well I think you missed my point too. Which is that none of this is to be taken too seriously, but Im not that bothered what a faceless person, who I dont know, says about my profile. However, whats the purpose of a profile if not to make some judgements on ? We all do it, even a saint like yourself. Anyway, this might as well be another area on which we agree to disagree..........peace out. handshake
Hi, clamheart and Howie, let's play snowball throw game!!grin grin santa waving christmas cool cold I love christmas..and December !!cheers cheers handshake
find a guy like me
I know i'm not so good..innocent

You know.. thanks for long advice... I will try my best...bouquet
What you need to be aware of, angel moon, is that three years a long time to wait for a relationship when you are in your twenties. If you don't meet him for three years, he just might meet someone else in that period. He isn't going to stay in his room, is he? And he is on this site.

It sounds like he wants a relationship now, so you are taking a risk by making him wait.
Calmheart, she is in college and has parents who are making her uptight, I think she is stuck, she has to go to school, do well and in 3 years she will be ready to see him. Remember how miserable she was because of her parents harrasment. I think this is nice for her to have a boyfriend on the internet, it relaxes her mind.
I dont know what to say....thanks Bay and clamheart...


I never knew love would be so exgerrated!!snowed in snowed in snowed in blah blah
where all poeple,...?blues blues blues why they changed....?sad flower
Oh some of us are still here Moonie, just too many things to do every day to spend much time writing, you know? But anyway, having given this matter much deep, deep thought I have come to the conclusion that no, he definitely doesn't love you. And you know why I say that? Because if he did you wouldn't need to ask the question. Think about it.
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