Flashy

I think you took your blog the wrong direction.

To answer your question, what is more 'fun' to watch, a blank white wall or a white wall with an action movie projected onto it?

put a baby in front of a blank white wall and watch baby cry. Now put all kinds of moving colors and noises, baby stop cry.

I would like to explore the man/woman that are drawn to material 'value' flashiness. Why does real gold attract some people more then fake gold. Both look the same.

Why do some want to display their gold and some what to hide their gold.

someone has to make the first move...are you waiting to be approached by the woman?...should she come up to you and do all the work while you sit there and evaluate her performance?...that is not the way it works in nature...is this the New Man?...is this the way it also is in the bedroom?...if you act this way...waiting to be approached...do not complain when you end up being bossed around and disrespected in a relationship with a woman...

Women do? I used to do that when I was a teen and didn't know any better. Like old me, they could be imagining themselves in the guy's world. Its stupid as the flashiness stays with the guy after dumping them.

In my opinion, woman liked to be appraoched rather than making the first move so next time you're out with your buddies and you see an attractive woman-GO FOR IT! Just say hello! I promise, the worst that will happen is that she won't want to talk, and in that case, it's her loss, right?
Next, think about the woman that your "flashy" guy friends are taking home! Would you REALLY wanna bring a girl home like that? Someone who obviously appreciates the material aspects of a man before anything else? I mean, I guess that's fine of you're just looking for a good time, but if it's love you're looking for...she's probably not the one you should be wasting your energy on.
I happen to prefer the quiet yet confident type of man, so keep your head up because there are good women out there.
Good Luck!