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Friendship

We don't exist unless there is someone who can see us existing, what we say has no meaning until someone can understand.
When surrounded by friends we have our identity confirmed, their care for us and their knowledge have the power to pull us from our numbness.
True friends don't evaluate us according to worldly criteria, it is the core self they are interested in. Their love for us remains unaffected by our appearance or position in the social hierarchy by our richness , or the fact that we have made little money.
Discerning our underlying need, we must recognize that a handful of true friends could deliver the love and respect that even a fortune may not.

As Epicurus said ,, BEFORE YOU EAT OR DRINK ANYTHING, CONSIDER CAREFULLY WHO YOU EAT OR DRINK WITH RATHER THAN WHAT YOU EAT OR DRINK: FOR FEEDING WITHOUT A FRIEND IS THE LIFE OF A LION OR A WOLF "

True love is not burning flames but the love of a friend...



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gotitall
gotitall●Dungarvan, Waterford Ireland
Nov 25, 2010●1 Blogs●378 Comments
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hello keesy, it is said, good friendship, is like good health, its true value is only seen, when it is lost.comfort
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keesy45
keesy45OP●oldenburg, Lower Saxony Germany
Nov 25, 2010●2 Blogs●256 Comments
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Right uncle Ben, ..when we have it.we are used to it..somethig normal..but when we loose it..it hurts, it's the moment we see that we are alone..hug
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aJester22
aJester22●Coconut Creek, Florida, Florida USA
Nov 25, 2010●77 Blogs●619 Comments
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Hello Sweet Darlin Keesy and Too True Mister Tall,. . conversing

I guess you guys were just tyin to spend a nice Quiet thanksgiving together, . . . . but ya forgot about Me, . .doh
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keesy45
keesy45OP●oldenburg, Lower Saxony Germany
Nov 25, 2010●2 Blogs●256 Comments
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laugh We're not forgotting you AJ, you are welcome.wine hug
You're also my friend!!
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aJester22
aJester22●Coconut Creek, Florida, Florida USA
Nov 25, 2010●77 Blogs●619 Comments
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Well i thank you, . Sweet Darlin K, . . .

I haven't heard from you in a while, . . . and thought you got mad at me, . . like all the other little women, . . . doh
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keesy45
keesy45OP●oldenburg, Lower Saxony Germany
Nov 25, 2010●2 Blogs●256 Comments
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laugh ..sometimes I need also time for me...I have not just the Net..on my mind..about the other girls, I do not know, but maybe they will come when you don't expect..laugh wine
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spinetingler
spinetingler●SAINT LOUIS, Missouri USA
Nov 25, 2010●2 Blogs●7 Comments
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I'm a glass half full kinda person. By recognizing the true value of a friend only after loosing them says that I did not invest the fullness of myself to begin with. Therefore not much of a friend to the other person. For investing oneself is a prerequisite to friendship.
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stillframe
stillframe●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Nov 26, 2010●76 Blogs●592 Comments
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what can i say that i haven't already said before find that someone that knows you breathe because two hearts breathe not the same but also yes the same
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keesy45
keesy45OP●oldenburg, Lower Saxony Germany
Nov 26, 2010●2 Blogs●256 Comments
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@ spinentigler..we do not choose our friends, they choose us, so isn't even necesary to invest to much in the friendship..just accept it,some people can be your friends if they want to..

Thanks for your opinion..my friend hug
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keesy45
keesy45OP●oldenburg, Lower Saxony Germany
Nov 26, 2010●2 Blogs●256 Comments
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Stillframe..two hearts can beat together but not in the same rithm..the other persom allowes himself to be your friend, invests energy in the togetherness but it is still an other person..I mean independent.
I a good friendschip we must respect each others freedom and privacy.
Your figure is an expression of a commitment that must come from both sides..than indeed two hearts beat together.

Thank you too my friend hug
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keesy45
keesy45OP●oldenburg, Lower Saxony Germany
Nov 26, 2010●2 Blogs●256 Comments
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@ Pixels . We all have our identity, friends are there for us to appreciate and to give it's value.
Life it is a succesion of love stories..even we use the term..LOVE OF MY LIFE..infact..most of the time is the one which lasts longer or it gives more value to our life, and also a succesion of frienship relations, as you've said,, some come, some go..or retourn.

Thanks for your contribution here..hug
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spinetingler
spinetingler●SAINT LOUIS, Missouri USA
Nov 26, 2010●2 Blogs●7 Comments
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Is friendship a passive process? A process where the other side provides the value and we just accept its rewards? Or is friendship a living entity that requires nurturing to grow and reach full maturity? If it's a passive process I can see where we would not realize the value until we have lost it.
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