Why Why Why-!!!!!!!

i feel your pain. although i havent met anyone yet. i would never be able to travel a great distance to meet someone. my work would not allow it dont know what i will do if the time comes

For me distance never matters if someone is with me.and via your blog this is simple message to her.

Yes,but there is then the uncertainty of the presence of lies-white or black for what ever means. Having been there before myself, so many people do this to balance their profiles and hide the faults that may well only be clear in person(real time).

I just try not to check out profiles of men who live out of Europe.. Maybe like this I'll miss the love of my life? But distance does matter...

I don't know what the subscriber count is here... anyone care to guess? It's enough to find people with things in common, but the chance of one of them living nearby isn't very large.

As mentioned, people rarely introduce themselves by listing their weaknesses. People typically don't do this in person either... they just can't hide them as well.

Part of the joy is in discovery though. Learn something about a different culture and enjoy some conversation. Seek out nice people who have nice things to say. I think this has to be the expectation. For a local connection, the odds just aren't in anyone's favor.

Of course... there's also delayed gratification... if you're willing to get to know someone via the computer (it's hard and it's time-consuming but it's possible)... then make one journey, when your own economy allows... well, that requires patience, lots of understanding, risk... truly not for everyone.

Good luck just the same! The right (local) someone might appear around here at any time :-)

A bit of time heals all-hold on !