Failure of inter-racial relationships

Survey shows rates of inter racial relationships in marriages and relationships are more likely and higher at risk to fail.
Blames are based on culture differences.
Culture indeed plays a role but its not the real culprit to why most inter-racial relationship fails.
To begin with,Societies already have labelled inter-racial relationship as neccessity not love.
In my opinion, primary factors working against inter racial relationship with outstanding succesful results are:.
1, Society
2, family
3,friends.
Society:.
E.g an African/Asian woman in Europe, walking on the street with her husband,
first the man is seen as the walking wallet
the woman is the walking passport or the wallet spender.
It is fair to say, societies frowns at inter-racial relationship.
in African, caucasians are seen as world bank with hard currency
In Asia, as a means of survival.
Family:,
They pretend to respect your choice but when trouble knocks at your relationship or marriage, they immidiately seize the opportunity&waste no time voicing their opinion on how wrong it had been from the start.
Friends;. These group feels threatened by their friendship. They see patner as competitions.
When a man or a woman marries or are busy building a relationship,it cost hardwork,energy,attention&responsibility.
Friends immidiately assumes partners are the reason why their friendship seems awkward.
Friends roles are very important, you rely on your friends for trusted advise regarding your relationship.
Unfortunately,friends impulse is reck it all, win your friendship back.
The influence they have as friends, pave the way to work against inter racial relationship.
Seriously, isnt it possible that these inter racial couples could truly love each other?
lets examine culture role in inter-racial relationship.
Culture:
The African/Asian culture mind software is programmed to respect and pledge undying love,affection,care, be a good cook because it is said, the way to a man's heart is through the stomach. Solidarity to the man and the man should always be in control.
But when they are in inter-relationship, revise is the case,
she wants to be in control and abuse the privileages she gets from the foreign partner.
They become lazy, they want to hire a personal cook.
They turn their husband into nanny.
Rather than being the keeper of the wealth of his hardworks, she becomes the careless spender.
trying hard to impress her community and friends.
Causians culture is 100% respect to women,she controls the cheque, arrange the family agenda.She is put first before any person.
Rather than respect their foreign partner, they treat her as a painting on the wall, just make yourself beautiful,,,,,,,,u dont have to know about taxrefund, or what goes in and out of my wallet,except what i give to u,just remain hanging on the wall. you dont have to ask about my work or how i feel, thats my family and friends job.
or just sign the contract, you stupid African or Asian girl, when i get tired of you, i just buy myself a new painting.
At family gathering or friends party,she is set aside as the intruder.
Conclusion:
We cant blame culture because clearly we dont apply culture in inter racial relationship.
We are all human so when you find a person you love&want to be with,just treat them, how you treat and expect yourself to be treated.
Do not build your relationship on society,friends&family expectations.
If there is a problem, talk with your partner. Tell about your work, your interest even if he or she isnt interested, keep telling her,,,,share your finances, give her a chance to feel responsible for the household chores and your financial decisions.
Thats why he/she is your partner.
Success or failure of any relationship is based purely on individual effort.
And individual indeed does varies.
Most happy inter racial relationship are those who stood the challenges with their partner, through the good,bad and ugly.