ranjilyn
ranjilyn
Nov 2011
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is love unfair?

What do u do if your rivalry in a relationship is not a woman but the parents of your love?
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adamisk
adamisk●raleigh, Mississippi USA
Nov 16, 2011●1,442 Comments
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your culture is probably very different but from my little part of the world but it would be unfortunate and i myself would do my best to change that but it is not necessary for the parents to like me after all i'm not trying to build a life with the parents .
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Greeneyes999
Greeneyes999●Southport, Merseyside, England UK
Nov 16, 2011●5 Blogs●58 Comments
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I guess you`ll find out how much he love`s if you ask him to choose who he wants to build a life & future with. You or his parents...... I wish you the best of luck for the future teddybear
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Greeneyes999
Greeneyes999●Southport, Merseyside, England UK
Nov 16, 2011●5 Blogs●58 Comments
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Sorry.... how much he love`s you.
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Aswina
Aswina●Nitra, Slovakia
Nov 16, 2011●12 Blogs●970 Comments
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try to get on with them... relatives are always part of us, we want we do not want. Persuade them you are just great girl the best for their son... good luck! bouquet
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ranjilyn
ranjilynOP●Doha, Qatar
Nov 16, 2011●57 Blogs●55 Comments
#5
Yes this is sounds horrable as if sometimes trying to make me feel guilty of saying obey or honour your parents..
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Boy67
Boy67●Cyprus, Limassol Cyprus
Nov 16, 2011●285 Comments
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Ask him to try later with you when his parents past away.laugh
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vyoleta
vyoleta●Arkaroola, South Australia Australia
Nov 16, 2011●479 Comments
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Don't be jealous for his parents. They should look like benefactors to you - they have created the dearest person for you, your boyfrined. And whatever you find not so nice about them, think it over, it might be a part of their son's nature, too. hmmm
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Jana28
Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria
Nov 16, 2011●1,803 Comments
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I agree with Vyoleta. wave
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felixdahousecat
felixdahousecat●Dublin, Ireland
Nov 16, 2011●7 Blogs●334 Comments
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Vyoleta - very well said I agree with you also thumbs up

I would also say that life is a challenge & if your partner love's you, well then - it will work out just dandy thumbs up
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macheath
macheath●Doha, Qatar
Nov 17, 2011●2 Comments
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There should be no rivals for your love, including family, friends, work, or hobbies. "Forsaking all others" means just that. The relationship comes first, everything else after. Parents should understand that, because they should have the same kind of commitment to each other. This will be hard for some people to hear, but children also are secondary to the commitment between husband and wife. A close second, but the relationship between husband and wife must be primary.
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ranjilyn
ranjilynOP●Doha, Qatar
Nov 17, 2011●57 Blogs●55 Comments
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Thanks CS member now i have the idea and will tell my friend that everything is in their control not anyone else. This is wonderful site and i learn a lot from you advice and suggestions..Cheers!
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HuggerMan4U
HuggerMan4U●Kent, Washington USA
Nov 17, 2011●85 Blogs●1,279 Comments
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If he really cares about you, he will defend you to his parents. He needs to make a choice whether to stay with his parents or to be with you. Personally, it's a no-brainer. Anyone in their right mind would pick you! After all, he's supposed to be dating you, not his parents.
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ranjilyn
ranjilynOP●Doha, Qatar
Nov 18, 2011●57 Blogs●55 Comments
#13
You are absolutely right and i salute you that..Cheers!
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Homing
Homing●Later, Delhi India
Nov 18, 2011●9 Blogs●282 Comments
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ranjilyn....I understand you perfectly. Culture and status really takes a huge part in fixing up a relationship, which is pretty unfortunate in a way. If one go against the rules, he/she will be left alone with all the mess to clean up
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