My Ex...
So How many people are still friends with their ex... I am! I met Bryan over 2 yrs ago online in a chatroom something drawed me to him he was mourning the death of his mom and searching for God, I was mourning the death of my aunt and looking to help others. Bryan was saved that night! Our friendship continued on for 2 wk and then I found myself with him and completly and totaly in love with him. Yes, love! Love is caring enough about that person that you will stick beside them no matter what... you understand them and don't ever fight with them. He had his share of problems and together we over come many obstacles. He was an alcoholic and addicted to drugs. Bryan has been completly clean for nearly a yr and a half. I am so proud of him, though he contributes most of it to me for sticking beside him and never giving up on him. Sadly in we began our relationship in June of 06 by Oct. of 06 he was diagnosed with cancer... I stood beside him and when ever he felt like giving up I kept pushing him... he went into remission in May of 07 about 10 days before I graduated high school. November of 07 he relapsed and was in remission by January of 08. Sadly again Bryan relapsed a few months ago he has fought as hard as he can and I've pushed him as far as I will push him. Bryan and I broke up nearly a yr ago and he is still my best friend. I know that I will miss him when he is gone. But I will never forget what a blessing he has been in my life.I smile knowing that I know what true love is! I dated him for over a yr and have been friends w/ him for over 2. We have never fought once. I caution others to stop and talk before getting angry. Bryan wasn't the person for me because we are both attached to our homes and could never bring ourselves to leave. He is married and has twins on the way but he don't believe he will make it until they are born.
Be thankful and treat your partner with respect and be thankful for everything!! As for Bryan I will always love him and he will forever be my best friend. I know that he will always be watching over me and we will meet again someday. Until then he says,"for me to keep on the right path, cause he wants to see me someday. That he's always watching over me and I'll never know how much he loves me!"
This is for him! Because he is truly a blessing!
Lora
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Peaches
Can make us all aware to treat those whom we Love Special everyday we have together
Bottom line is, she's a good woman, basically. She just wasn't good for me. The day she told me about her lover, I said O.K. went to the bedroom, got my things and moved into the spare bedroom. No yelling, no anger. Here's the deal, I don't want to be where I'm not wanted. So now the woman I still care about is still in my life and we are great friends. I love her....but not IN love with her, now. Why deny myself her company, just because we are not married anymore
A friend will always be a friend with or without the dating. You sound like a very good person who cares about people. This one just happened to be someone you dated during the friendship.
Anger is a part of breaking up when you expected a relationship. Being and adult and a friend is forgivness and love.
I know that sounds corny but it is a part of life, a part of growing up and a part of love. I hope I have friends like you that will always be there for me. I know I will always watch over my friends while here on this world and when I am where ever we go after.
Still corny,
Thank you for showing that people can be human.