ex-wife
Would just like to know how you ladies would feel if your boyfriend invited his ex-wife to eat with you both. Let me explain. He has some childern that live in another town and when we go to visit them and take them out to lunch the ex-wife goes with us. If they come here to visit their father the ex-wife is there. This doesn't happen all the time but to often for me to like it. What should I do?what would you do? We have went together for about 6 yrs. The ex-wife has always been an issue with me. Not him,He gets sideways with me when I say anything.
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and another promise they make on christmas time to be together.
she always complain that he do not give her time in the evening when she is not work, because they still live in the same house.
To be honest even share the bed behind my back and I dump him
I find a photoof her in his bedroom with her slip pose for a photo on his bed ...
I don't like it that they still share things and they separated.
As far as that I really don't know. I have no problem with him seeing the kids BUT NOT HER. I know that he calls her. He says that he calls her just to see how the kids are. I think why not call them they have phones.
his sons have their e- mails and mob..
when we was on holiday she e mailed him that he did not contact his children day after we was on our holiday.
next mial. I do not think they family except to answer your mail is not going well with us??? because our e mail is on our names...
the boys do not except their father not love anymore their mum and have life with another woman they are 25 y and 27y independent..
next mail you only contact one of your son you have to contact the others.
I get fed up and write her back if they want to contact thier father they know his mob number they will text him.
She always in the middle he never going to leave her
Whatever sorry for you not matter what
You say you "went" together for about 6 years. Are you no longer with him? If he's a thing of the past and this is just a conversational question, I think you are thinking about your past too much. But like I say, if you are dating him or live with him, you need to get her out of your life before you marry him.
Sounds to me that he wants to have his cake and eat it too....I have grown children and an ex...they enjoy their time with him and their time with me..apart. The only time we are all together is when something big happens with the kids that is a once in a life time kinda thing that cannot be avoided. You have more patience that I would...
Sweet whatever if he realy love you and do not love his ex he stop contact her.
I am sorry of whom going to be his girlfriend because have to except his ex 2 are couple 3 are crowd dear.
Good luck hope what you wish it comes to your way take care
I cannot advise you, I am not in your shoes.. I can just write I would do in the similar situation...
I would never compete with ex... ex are ex for some reasons
I would be really nice to his ex as much as possible and give her place to show herself...she has to feel some envy when she agrees to contact ex so often even with girlfriend ...
Once she were satisfied and happy, she moved forward and made new friends.
I would give bf chance to recall the reason, why they divorced...
Good Luck!
Have a fresh start and the past is dead. he never going to change he tried to make others beliveing him and feel sorry for him.
in my case his sons are adult not going to except any other woman if she do not except his mother friendship.
live the past away if he loved you enough he stand by you
Take care