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Dec 2011
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any advice to forgive and forget?

how can you forgive a person who hurt you?when you thought you did everything to make him happy?when you do everything so that they will not feel so tied up?instead you get appreciation fromn the things you did you got an everlasting heartache.i know its wrong to curse but can you blame a person when she was really been in deep pain?i did everything to forgive and forget and i was here to ask help from anyone to give me advice.im having lot of tension from this heataches already please help me on how to cope up from my situation.doh
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Mysst
Mysst●Springfield, Missouri USA
Dec 12, 2011●2 Blogs●232 Comments
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Hi Sweetie, through my own personal experience, sometimes it takes years to get over these things, but eventually it will fade and you will eventually find peace. The best thing you can do to help yourself is not blame yourself, if that person was really worth for every thing you gave, then you would still be with them, i find its easier to point the finger for who's truly to blame and point my heart to those who truly deserve it hug
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chococherrie
chococherrie●Somewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia
Dec 12, 2011●98 Blogs●1,751 Comments
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only time in afraid! only time is a true healer but if the scars are too deep and painful it will take longer
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marss
marss●morriston, Florida USA
Dec 12, 2011●3 Blogs●105 Comments
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cry till you are cried out then sign up to help the elderly or children...do things to take your mind off the hurt...active things that give you no time to think of what has happened...stay busy..and look out for number one...thats u...dont bury yourself with wine or drugs...make a plan to do a project and set a date to finish it...but most of all forget...
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angelfaith30
angelfaith30OP●10, Kuwait
Dec 12, 2011●8 Blogs●17 Comments
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mysst,chococherrie and arch angel well thank you for your opinion and i think your right would be too long since it was deep as hell lol!::frustrated:
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lachicabonita
lachicabonita●counting days to DE, Jakarta Indonesia
Dec 12, 2011●1 Blogs●2,393 Comments
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angelfaithwave

What I did was praying that I have the ability to forgive him despite the hurtful things he did to me. It gave me a big relief after that because I have thrown away most part of my saddening burden and I was feeling much better. Hopefully it can work on you, too. Keep yourself busy or taking new activities that will distract your focus on your ex onlycomfort hug

It may take a long time to forget but keep moving onwine
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Rummy1
Rummy1●Baku, Azerbaijan
Dec 12, 2011●26 Blogs●392 Comments
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Time will help you.grin wine
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lachicabonita
lachicabonita●counting days to DE, Jakarta Indonesia
Dec 12, 2011●1 Blogs●2,393 Comments
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that I have the ability --> that I was blessed with the ability
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LIVEINHOPE
LIVEINHOPE●Dublin, Ireland
Dec 12, 2011●6 Blogs●204 Comments
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anglefaith, it takes time, there is no way to rush it, you must work your way through the hurt, and pain, you cannot go around, over, or under this door, you must go through it, painful as it is, it is the only way to heal, from the emotional pain.comfort
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angelfaith30
angelfaith30OP●10, Kuwait
Dec 12, 2011●8 Blogs●17 Comments
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thanks all fot the good advice hope to pass throughto be happy again!
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morgenulv
morgenulv●oslo, Oslo Norway
Dec 12, 2011●43 Blogs●3,230 Comments
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How about NOT forgiving?! Thought of that?
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Seatraveler
Seatraveler●Longview, Texas USA
Dec 12, 2011●2 Blogs●73 Comments
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There ya go! I don't forgive. All that does is tell the other party that it's ok to do it again! Why would they change if there's no accountability for their actions?
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ExitMadrid
ExitMadrid●MADrid, Madrid Spain
Dec 12, 2011●7 Blogs●110 Comments
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wave Have you tried meditation? hug
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morgenulv
morgenulv●oslo, Oslo Norway
Dec 12, 2011●43 Blogs●3,230 Comments
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And let him out of your mind.

Move on bouquet
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lachicabonita
lachicabonita●counting days to DE, Jakarta Indonesia
Dec 12, 2011●1 Blogs●2,393 Comments
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morgen,

that was exactly my friend and I discussed one day until we (women) came into a summary:

woman can forgive but cannot forget

man (mostly) cannot forgive and cannot forgettongue wine
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angelfaith30
angelfaith30OP●10, Kuwait
Dec 12, 2011●8 Blogs●17 Comments
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morgen,lol!yeah i wish i have that strenght to tell him the words you told and i dont know why i still want to forgive so that i can move on happilty lol!i know i should be like thisvery mad but i want to be like thisangel
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angelfaith30
angelfaith30OP●10, Kuwait
Dec 13, 2011●8 Blogs●17 Comments
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morgen,lol jail sentence its so light he deserves a life sentence already lol!well thank you and your right ill remember that.lol!cheers
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Shoelace
Shoelace●Quezon city, Metro Manila Philippines
Dec 17, 2011●8 Blogs●59 Comments
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dont think negative for what happen to your relation just busy and you will find the pain is gone and next time when you love someone dont give 100 persent just 50 50 hug comfort heart wings heart wings
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