Needs -v- Wants
here's a question for you all.... Is it better to be needed? or wanted?
As an adult, I have many basic "needs" and loads of "wants". I've got everything I need to live a happy life, but not necessarily everything I want. Hence the new online dating thing....
So, if I tell someone in my independant 'assertive' manner that I don't need them, but that I want them, wouldn't that be a compliment?
Are people too sensitive? and crave that "needy" feeling?
Personally, I'd much rather be wanted by a "man" so I can leave the "neediness" to my kiddies.
thoughts????
Comments (8)
want is a selfish thing
where as need a helpless thing
hmmm now how would i prefare my man to be about me
what we want today, we might not tomorrow but what we need, we cant be without, so id opt for my man needing me
Ive seen it before and nobody really had an answer
Good Luck
The answer is Want
for example: a want is a wish not an action
A need is a service the other must provide, in my experience.
He may not want me around but he needs me to do the laundry, errands, etc because he has better things to do.
Just my experience.
WANTEDbut if/when u eva NEED me I will b there!