firesidefun
firesidefun
Jan 2012
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OMG

I just recieved a message from someone on a diffrent dating site that to communicate with him I had to be employed.......Nope I not looking for someone to take care of me because I've been single so long I have not clue what it's like to be taken care of......I felt so insulted...........Yes I'd love to be in a mutual relatio ship.........I personally refust to financally support anyone but I don't have a need for anyone to supprt me........I personally am out here probably looking for something that no lognger exists........What do the rest of you think???????????
Let me know what you think cheers
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breathless22
breathless22●Bloomington, Illinois USA
Jan 12, 2012●14 Blogs●25 Comments
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Well go with your heart and Love is blind and I would not worry what the other guy wants from the other site and you are you and he should except you for you and nothing less and nothing more if not then you are better off good luck and hang in there preety girl.heart wings
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sweetkitten4
sweetkitten4●Brighton, East Sussex, England UK
Jan 12, 2012●92 Blogs●471 Comments
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I have actually been in the position of supporting a man financially, not a very pleasant experience. At least you found out now fireside. My ex-husband was only employed for a year during our marriage and gave up his job because he thought of diabetes as a disability that meant he couldn't work and I ended up supporting him financially as well as putting up with his temper. I divorced him 7 years ago. Like you I don't like being financially dependent on a man nor would I like a man to be financially dependent on me unless of course his need for this was genuine. The advice Sailfree gives is good advice. hug
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particolor
particolor●Inverell, New South Wales Australia
Jan 12, 2012●9,376 Comments
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Spd..Well you start him off gently with your ONLY the CEO of Some Massive Company !! that makes their tongue drop out when they read it !!! you then progress on to Bigger and Better things untill he drowns in his own Saliva!!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing handshake
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spdspd
spdspd●Ayr, Strathclyde, Scotland UK
Jan 12, 2012●52 Blogs●751 Comments
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I have to try this strategy!devil
Thanks @party!teddybear
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LIVEINHOPE
LIVEINHOPE●Dublin, Ireland
Jan 12, 2012●6 Blogs●204 Comments
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it is a sign of the times we live in, that love is now conditional, on whether one holds a job or not, anyone can lose a job, especially in these turbulent financial times, do we stop loving someone then, its all about status these days, but true love, is unconditional, full stop.hug
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adamisk
adamisk●raleigh, Mississippi USA
Jan 12, 2012●1,442 Comments
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you don't really wanna know what i think it's bad but in a short and sweet way he wouldn't have to worry about me sending him a message .
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morgenulv
morgenulv●oslo, Oslo Norway
Jan 12, 2012●43 Blogs●3,230 Comments
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True Liveinhope, thats why i can't find one in this financially well off country. Thay not after my monay neither, its beyond that. Here thay want you with a status job. Without it im considered a looser.
So im scrolling the world for ppl wanting a good hearted looser.

purple heart
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explorer6
explorer6●altus, Oklahoma USA
Jan 12, 2012●4 Blogs●181 Comments
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I haven't been alone that long but I have already meet three men that where more than happy if I paid for everything, they didn't last. I don't mind paying my share but will not pay everything. Just another question to through in here all of these men where Gemini just wondering if that had anything to do with it?
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morgenulv
morgenulv●oslo, Oslo Norway
Jan 12, 2012●43 Blogs●3,230 Comments
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Explorer, make no mistake- i'd gladly pay for minimum one of the first dates, then one ev month or so for eternety.
Rest of the time we can split it i guess. Good enough?

I'm starting to wonder of the boys don't wanna pay nomore cos thay suspect the females mey potentially just use them... some paranoia thing, alternatively that its actually spreading this behaveour from some young females...confused That thought just struck me now and is another sign of the time then
if its true.... urgh!..
sigh
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explorer6
explorer6●altus, Oklahoma USA
Jan 12, 2012●4 Blogs●181 Comments
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morgenulv you are cute enough I might just let you pay everything.
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outdorgirl
outdorgirl●te awamutu, Waikato New Zealand
Jan 14, 2012
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i wouldnt answer him just on princible ,weather i had a job or not,how rude!
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