to love someone ...why????
they say "Its better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all"but WHY??? why it should be better to love and lose that someone?
you won't miss what you don't know...but what you know you'll miss. if you've never loved someone with all of your heart you won't know how it may feel to be together, how much you could miss that someone, how wonderful it could be, how it could be if you have that special one and love him/her and in return to be loved the same way by him/her.
if you have loved someone wholeheartedly but lost that special someone, no matter why...why should it be better than never to have loved at all?
if you have never loved at all, you don't know what it's like, what you feel about it.
but if you did you know how it feels, you know how much you miss him/her, when he/she's not with you, you know how it feels to be alone and without him/her, you know how good it feels to be wrapped in his/her arms, to be close together and to have that very special feeling, you know the sound of your heart that's breaking, you know all the crying and all the suffering...
so WHY it should be better???
it's just a saying like "if it's not raining it could be a sunny day"
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you put some reasonable questions!
Guess its cos if u were able to love, then
no.1) you are more loveable, the world that invented the expression like that more.
no.2) you should be in a better position to succeed some other time.
The theory expects you to come out of the heartbreak not so destroyd it's beyond repair and that you don't cause the world too much suffering while you are down either.
Give it a chance ppl, its a great british band from the 80's.
better to of loved then never loved atall???
sometimes i think yes, then there are times i think not but my over all veiw, and my own personal thoughts for my own reasons are NO, sometimes lost loves are not always worth the loss because of the love and joy they once had brought...
just as everyones love story is different so too is everyones handeling to the unhappy ending, some can live with it, others cannot.. some can deal with it, whilst others struggle to cope. some can get past it whilst others remain in the past' without been able to move on..
depends on the persons age, circumstances...
love is beautiful and thats as true as distruction of a person is sad..
I've done the half of my life without love, maybe the rest would be better...hope dies at last. Maybe there's someone out there who wants to have all the love that's saved deep inside of me. and if not, no problem
What an UPLIFTING post!
just so you know, you UPLIFT me too
yeah right
is a beautiful song but is in espaniol :)
it was some years ago virgo and her then teenage daughter is now due her firstchild,sorry' but my friend is on my mind alot these days, what a pity shes not around to feel the joy in been a grandmother, what a shame shes not there for her daughter when i know her daughter will be thinking of her alot .. i minded her then virgo but her father moved back in but now adays shes in a loving relationship with the father of her child, things look good for her so many of us are excited bout this baby cos she miscarried last year ...
sorry 1look seems iv hijacked this blog abit
but im only replying to questions that were asked