A New Day

Today is a new day. I will try not to moan or mope today. Things just wear me down, even when I think I am doing a good job of ignoring what is bothering me.

I am sad because my marriage is over. I met this man 13 years ago. I lived in Colorado and he was a tourist. We hit it off and since I am a risk taker, I sold my place and moved to Minnesota. We got married 4 years later. When I moved in with him, I didn't really move in. All my things were in storage.

Now I look around. Here I am in Minnesota. No family, no real friends, just me.
All this stuff I have been carrying with me and it just sort of hit me.

It is sad when a relationship ends. It is normal to feel sad, I think.
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Diamond

Let your friends here hug and encourage you as you already know we are your friends for life

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Hi Diamond wave
It's very normal to feel that way.
I ended up in Belgium in a similar way and here I am, just me too.
I don't mind most days, but some days it can hit me too.

Just think about what you really want, move some place else or not... and see what your options are.

Keep your dreams alive as well, it helps lift your spirits.
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Diamond, your words made me feel and cry within.crying
A friend once told me "Women these days like modern men, who can show feelings and not afraid to cry" and he asked me "Are you a modern man"? I answered "Yeah, sure". He then said "do you feel and cry sometimes"? I answered "Sure, of course"..then he asked "So, being a modern man, do you sleep alone at night"? I replied "Heck yeah, why do you think I cry". lolgrin

..but seriously Diamond, I know what you're talking about here. I dont think we ever get over our greatest love or crush..but somehow we find the strength to move on, eventually. You know I wish you the best.. and happiness always. hug
angel cheers I am happy to hear that. Life is never back but always move on. Keep spirit cheers smitten You will find the best oneteddybear bouquet lips
But, but, I like moans!! sigh blushing grin

Here you go DW comfort

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DW,hug hug

I wish I am near,I am sure I will be there always with you,as a good friend and make you smile...but even though I am far...I really like you and all i can make you smile to send these cute emotions grin hug hug teddybear peace yay

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diamond, I am sorry to hear thatsad flower If I am not mistaken, you still have your daughter as your family, haven't you? comfort

Yes, it is normal to feel sad when a relationship ends, but I hope as time goes by, you'll be alright hug teddybear

Hey Diamond, i know how you feel. i dated a guy for over a year and a half, and out of nowhere he dumped me for some girl he has never even met. my whole life revolved around him, i was friends with all of his friends, i was always with him, we did everything together. i still cry every night thinking how good it was to be loved, but i also realized that sometimes these things happen for a reason. being with him brought me closer to God, it helped me to find out alot about myself, and now it seems easier to let myself say yes to oppertunities that come along. its never easy, and it probably never will be, but focus your energy on bettering yourself. go get your nails done, get your hair done, buy a hot new outfit, and go out for a nice meal. your a beautiful person and one day you will get everything you deserve, you jsut have to stay strong and have faith. hug
wave Diamond,

Nothing wrong with feeling sad when a relationship end's - it mean's you have a heart.

but it's also important to move on with your life. This world we live in is a beautiful place & I've read enough of your blogs to know you are a beautiful person.

Be happy, you never know what a new day could bring you, maybe some hunky guy might call around to do some plumbing work for you uh oh

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