No Comprendo

A woman that I'm in love with her just told me that I'm
too shy...because I asked her permission to give her
a huggrin what does this mean? am I too slow? Does she wants
me to jump all over her? I'm just trying to be respectful
I want to show her that this is not only a physical attraction
I really care about her.dunno confused
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sometimes we are just crazy wave
i dont know what she mean , but i guess maybe she wants you just do it without asking her confused
was nice of you , i would appreciate that cool
but maybe next time just try to do it without asking , but dont jump on her too scold kiss
Lady1980,I appreciate your comment,you see,I don't want
to lose her for being too slow.doh
Okay now next time you see her you wont feel comfortable you wont know what to do or when, and she knows this. Its her way of getting you under her control.cheers
Bung
u ought be congratulated on ur manners...applause
I agree with Lady,
She speaks wisely my friend.
A warm comforting gentle hug when least expected will do wonders for u both.....cheers
Bung we are all different , so you know
someone will like slow guy and some like to see more confidence .
okay , but if she says you are shy guess she would like you kiss her and hug her without asking for it hug lips
but also be youself , don't turn into someone else just cos of her .
shy guys are also cool cool
some more confidence and would be great thumbs up
good luck !!!heart wings
Yes Simmo nothing wrong with a hug , specially if you are smitten love heart wings
comfort Bungallow, if sh says you're too shy, then there must be shy, not so shy, not shy, and not shy at all. Maybe she wants you to feel comfortable enough with her to know that a hug now and then and at the right time is always welcome. bouquet
Well i think if this woman likes you she shouldnt be makeing you feel uncomfortable. And playing with your emotions she should be considerate and makeing you feel comfortable when your together.cheers wave
Wow Ladies you really are special...I like your advicesapplause some women likes agressive menboxing
she is not rushing things she's precaucious and that's
what really confused me a little bit.blushing smitten
Waf that is also true , but sometimes we speak without thinking confused , maybe she just want to feel he cares and in that way she comunicate it wine
wafwotan I think we both are kind of cold persons...I mean
we don't know or we afraid to express our feelings to each
other.
Okay Lady what im saying is he was being considerate of her and she makes him feel insecure by telling him hes too shy. I dont like this thats my opinion time will tell i hope im wrong hes a good guy.handshake wave
lady......come close to the screen pls....
just a little closer.....
hug teddybear bouquet heart beating hug
there u go.
for being u i give u another hug
blushing blushing blushing blushing blushing blushing
Waf i know what you mean , i bet she just say it to feel he cares handshake
hope all will go great cheering applause love smitten

Simmo thank you so much , here something for you too , before i go hug hug hug teddybear cheering
You see guys that what I'm Talking about...women are so
complicated and hard to know they're thinking...not long
ago I told her,I like your company...but her expression
didn't change at all...is confusing.hole
Te digo esto para que comprendes. Es muy simple!!!

Just hug her and don't make it a big deal. She sounds like she wants your hugs and welcomes them.
I would see that as a positive indication.conversing

If she wasn't interested she could have fobbed you off,
instead, she is giving an indication that she might be ready to move things on.
Of course the tone used at the time would confirm or rebuke this and only you have have that privileged informationgrin

But give her some hugs, women like that and sometimes spontaneity works wondershug

Good Luckteddybear teddybear
Oh this woman is smothering you with love does she have a sister?frustrated love wow laugh rolling on the floor laughing yay thumbs down
Ed Gracias,I will do that...I think I'm drowning in a glass
of water.I must leave now.I want to thanks everyone for your
comments,I feel better now.dancing
wafwotam yes, she has a sister in Kentucky...I'm not sure if she's single though.dunno
on a final note, yeah, what Ed said thumbs up
oh bungallow, what you call being slow, i call being a gentleman...as for me its always betta to ask than to be over pushy. you very caring and gentle how could one call it too shy? silly woman, tell her about it!
Oye ermaito!! como te atreves jamar nuestra rasa de embra animalos? te estas pasando e somos personas no animalas laugh rolling on the floor laughing

Eres muy maho, por eso te aprecio mucho hug lips
Women always appreciate a man who is polite. Don't change , the girl might be used to animals all over her and you being different will be a pleasant thing for her . You have the chance to show her you are not shy when the time is right. Just tell her you are different and respect women ..she will understand eventually . Good on you , i think you have been taught well , respecting women is the way to get what you need in life. Saskia .
It seems you are not picking up on her 'cues'. I would appreciate a man asking as that shows he cares about my feelings. Maybe she feels she has made hers known to you already.

I would just assume from now on that holding hands is always okay...no need to ask, and putting your arm around her is also okay. If she snuggles closer then try a kiss. Sometime we need to react to body language and what is NOT said and see the reaction. But I agree with you.....one step at a time!

All the best to you!




hug x 20


P.S. My one concern is that she may be looking for a fling and you may be looking for a relationship. Sometimes a conversation is needed as you may oth want different things.
I guess it's not easy to find a nice man, with a job,
that takes good care of himself, enjoys life AND
is respectful of his lady......!!
All together.....!!

I think......that at the early stages of a relationship,
it's nice, well even if not always, but to ask
is nice and respectful: though I guess,
I would like a man to understand by himself
(sometimes at least) when is the right moment to do something sweet and unexpected.
I guess that for these sweet romantic unexpected things,
you need to have known each other for some time first
anyway................
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I don't know if someone else agrees..........
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