doesn't mean ...

Letting go doesn't mean you forget the person completely, it just means that you find a way of surviving without them.
and Moving on doesn't mean you forget about things. It just means you have to accept what happened and continue living.
wine
Post Comment

Comments (18)

and if you loved that person their will always be some love in your heart left for that person no matter what
Yeah and i hope it will become love for a friend , coz thats the better way sad flower
not sure about that bambina.. I mean i will always love all my ex-girlfriends in a way.. not the kind of love for relation anymore and not even for friendship.. Once its over its really is over for me... but still some love will always stay deep inside myself
nope , to late now ...you hate him for breaking your heart , and till you stop thinking of him a million times over...why he hurt you .....its going to be many years befor you will give him anything ...so find something new to fill your time with ....ok gift teddybear
Well it worked for me to my other ex innocent most of them become friends with me,ted
Thats good , virgo hug

Hey why u still awake , its very late in ur place isn't it ?
Don't know if i would like to have a girlfriend who is still in touch and being close friends with her ex.. In my opinion you have to let go completely before you can truly commit yourself again in a new relation. I don't say you can't say hello if you meet in a shop or something but i would consider it weird if she still feels like she needs to be in contact with him
I've just got out of bed , ...7:22 a.m. in the morning here ...cheering teddybear
Yeah u right too teddy, i just made a good relation with them but it doesnt mean i wanna stay around them peace
And its my bed time , goodnite gentlemens wine thx for sharing
goodnight bambina, sweet dreams
Sometimes its very difficult but you have to make the right decision and move ahead and when you look back you will know that was the best thing to do.
When you really love someone and it ends, your feelings don't just end. Not even when people tell you to find something else to think about or just to forget that person, as if you are a faucet that can just turn off those feelings just because someone tells you to do so. frustrated

Letting to is one of those things that just takes time. Bambina is correct; you determine in your mind to let go, but your heart takes it's time and there's not much you can do about it. That's just the way it is.
very hard to do, but possible. sigh
Virgo , ex is absolutly my past story so even they ask me back i will ignore it and at the time if i already have bf then i will keep my heart for him .
Btw if i go the the party w/ my bf and i find there's my ex then i will keep hand in hand with my bf and wont go in to temptation laugh

Hi ladies wave and good morning to ya'll
I forget the person completely insofar as wanting to be with them or still "loving" them. If we happen to cross paths I say "Hi" and move on.
Its our own expectations of someone that failed to be realised for us that causes us to move on . When we can release ourselves from that expectation then it will all be put into perspective for us.
Its a far nicer place for us in our own minds if we don't feel hurt or hate when someone realises or we realise we no longer belong together.
Hate for a past love often eventuates when one party cannot assume responsibility for his/her own judgement he/she played in the liaison. Its lack of understanding of ones self, and respect for anothers right to be as he /she is that causes such an emotion at the end.
The most well adjusted minds will recognise an individuals right and need to be as they naturally are then recognise their minds/way of life etc did not suit, or situations change and agree to disagree . Its only anger at ourselves and disappointment in something we cannot have for ourselves that leads to such hate in the end. If you have hate for another human , its really self hate you are experiencing . think about it please...saskia
Thx for the advise , aunt hug thumbs up
Post Comment - Let others know what you think about this Blog.
Meet the Author of this Blog
bambina_bee

bambina_bee

unknown, Jakarta, Indonesia

im just simple woman but im fun loving sort of person ,easy going,shy, home loving , sometimes talkative but also quite for a while. i'm kinda family person , i love kids , travel and i love cooking

Anyway thx for the photo comments and rating [read more]

About this Blog

created Oct 2012
637 Views
Last Viewed: May 2
Last Commented: Oct 2012
bambina_bee has 109 other Blogs

Like this Blog?

Do you like this Blog? Why not let the Author know. Click the button to like the Blog. And your like will be added. Likes are anonymous.

Feeling Creative?