Appreciate the presence
--Revived spirit seeks persons with the similar spirit about communication. Person on your spiritual level. You follow the radiance, which attracts.-- If you hold inner pureness, you strive towards outer cleanness, always shaved and groomed.
--Foundation for a marriage : friendship, care, trust, love; giving/receiving based on trust, friendship, you can lean each other, you can count each other.
--Communication is the skill to appreciate and enjoy partner s presence. How do you feel after 10 months,2 years communication?
--Inner conviction to feel secure.The HSpirit testifies through peace in your mind and spirit, and it s God s approval.
--The Bible does not teach the woman must allow physical or mental abuse with herself. Such man is selfish, primitive and mentally ill. When the situation is unbearable the woman withdraw herself, being distant.
--Dictator husband gives commands and every opposition meets with physical or mental violence. Every man, as a head of family, does not mean one-sided decisions in a marriage. They both have the right of personal choice, and with conversation reach mutual understanding and decision.
--Do not humiliate your partner before others. Do not allow others mess into your marital relationship, it is personal life and not for public using. Do not let anyone take advantage of you with Bible quotes only for you are a Christian.
--A revived spirit does not hold fear, guilt, condemnation. Pure conscience, which gives you direction. Through the spoken words you recognize where it comes from - the soul/mind, where are the devil s attacks OR from filled spirit.
--A society, which devalues a person, based on attempts for supporting oppression and robbing. How they both can live with unfair attempts?
--Peace in your mind and spiritual joy in your heart/spirit show you are on the right path, fulfilled. Extend your heart , being filled the Holy Spirit with. When your own intentions / will are in agreement with God s intentions / willingness - there is anointing - sign of God s working Word. I believe in God s approval-anointing-standard of holy and righteous life. Oneness in the family and why not in the society /maybe in a future society/ ?
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-cares about providing money
- treats her polite like lady
-has his spare time for her
-count on her about the row at home
-does not command / scream her
-keeps personal hygiene, shaved, groomed
-comes back at home on time / informs her about delaying
-does not force his will on her
-does not flirt with other woman
-protects and gives security
-home repairing
She creates atmosphere at home, gives him attention,cares about the row and children, eventually she provides money too.
I also agree that decisions should not be one sided,just because a husband is head of the wife. For a husband ought to place high value and what his wife thinks,and not miss out on her perspective. For God has given each other to know and share.
You have a big heart Mia! I've enjoyed your input.
God bless!