Let Go

I met this guy on CS few months ago and he proposed me. We went through the times and got to know each other very well. Finally I said yes. We were thinking to get married this summer. Everything was fine until one week before Easter, he just didn't contact me at all and gone. Tried to call but he never picked it up. Send texts but no reply. And he never contacted me again especially on my Birthday, yesterday. What an April fools day and I felt being fooled since long time ago but just realized it. Was born on April fools day didn't mean people are free to make fool at medunno

Whatever, time heals the pain. Must be careful next time to whom I really can invest my attention and love.

I have to let go and learnt from it.conversing

Take care for everyone! April is always fun!dancing
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lets hope he didn't get run over by a bus and hes in plaster in a hospital some where ...wave
I asked his cousin, but he also didn't know about it...very sad...crying
sorry to know it hug
well but it could be good thing, & you already right to move on with your life ..
Sorry to hear this, but you are better off alone when he treated you like this before you get married. Imagine your pain when he treat you like this after you got married. Christin, Stay Strong. The right man will come into you life sooner or later. Maybe not a man from CS, but there will be a nice man for you too, I'm sure!hug teddybear bouquet heart wings yay
Thanks Welela teddybear

I was thinking that I don't need someone came into my life and interfere my happy life that I had with my daughter now. If there's a man want to share the happiness with us, then he should make our happiness complete, not ruin it..cheering

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Hi Christen, sorry to hear that. hug
You are probably better off to know his character before you married him, but that doesn't make you feel any better now. It will take time to heal, I hope you have family and friends who can distract you. conversing Do things you enjoy.
I wish you best of luck for your future. bouquet

Belated happy birthday wishes
There is a saying from where I come from Christine count your blessings...however if he does come back he better have a really good explaination of his MIA. However the question I pose to you is do you think you wont accept him back if he does come back...just a thoughtgrin
Christin, you are so right, let no man make you unhappy, they are not worth it!hug teddybear bouquet
I OFTEN WONDERED IF SOMETHING HAPPENS TO SOMEONE AN ACCIDENT OR WHATEVER WHAT HAPPENS AS I DONT THINK MOST PEOPLE WOULD HAVE CS CONTACTS ON THEIR PHONE AND NO ONE WOULD KNOW BUT IN THIS CASE MAYBE HE IS JUST A COWARD FOR AT LEAST NOT BEING HONEST WITH YOU WELL HIS LOSS CHRISTINDEW MOVE ON AND MAYBE IF HE APPEARS WITH AN ANSWER YOU CAN DECIDE THEN WHAT TO DO BEST OF LUCK wave
Thanks,KNenagh! I had great lunch celebration with my friends in the afternoon and ordered chicken cordon bleu, yummmmwine
And in the evening, me and my daughter bought a birthday cake and we did celebrate and enjoy it, just the two of us thumbs up
I knew that it was hurt inside but i did my best not to let it ruined the whole daydancing
Time heals the pain.
Thanks again for all support from people in here angel
Hugs!!teddybear
Good question Tuitoga! I think that trust is like an eraser, it become smaller when it has to erase more mistakes. If he come back, i am just not so sure anymore. But i wont bother to think about it now, one problem enough for one day. cool
I know his phone number and his private email, mike. I even know his cousin, but his cousin also didn't know why he did this.. Whatever.. He grown up person and will regret it someday..doh
Christin:

Let me correct you on one thing.

In your last comment you said, "he will regret it someday". Change it to "I will never regret it"! You'll see how much stronger you will be!

Blessings to you!
Gotta agree with Ed said thumbs up
you deserve for good one not
dont worry,,just move onthumbs up
Thanks Ed! Thats better indeed. I will never regret it thumbs up
Christen

I know how you feel, I have been hurt so many times on here until trust is very hard. I always hold it back until I meet face to face now. I no long let everything out, something are better to find out at a meeting, but then somethings you do not find out until later on in life, after a marriage.

So like everyone has said let it go and move on, just keep your eyes, and ears open, and your heart close.
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