Con artist

I dated a guy last April, we've been chatting up for quite sometime before we decided to meet up, we hit on... Had a great time with each other. After the first date, I haven't heard from him. Thought he only want a good time. So I decided to carry on dating to find my right man. Then he decided to contact me again, I thought this time I need to share things with him if incase we've decided to go further, honesty is always been the best policy for me. Told him I dated other guys, thought he wasn't serious... He got annoyed and told me I let him down... I was a wreck thinking I did the right thing but after that, he doesn't call or text for ages then when he comes in contact, he prefer to drop by to my place. We had a great time when were together but after he leaves my place it feels like we're both strangers again... He doesn't call, doesn't txt for weeks... Then he will only remembers me if he wants something...

Then a week ago after weeks of haven't heard from him, he decided to text me. I know he only want one thing so I said no. Had enough of being used as a doormat. I do like him but I don't want to sacrifice my self respect just to fulfill his needs.

Now he wants to catch up because I'm determined not to see him anymore. I've been hurt and don't want to go through it again. What should I do...