Dess7717

Dess7717

Jul 2013

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Is it bitterness?

I'm just wondering if I did wrong warning one girl on the site to be careful to a guy who's just using woman here for his s*xual pleasures. And I'm actually tempted to name shame the guy...
Am I being mean? Or this deserves to be broadcast? The guy starts chatting and having clear intention of looking for a relationship but after you've given what he wanted, he just decided to dump you and move on to another girl to victimize...
Please advice...

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Cyn_Real●Happily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong

Jul 31, 2013●15 Blogs●542 Comments

at my current age, I've met various people...from religious nutters to super worst of the baddass...

can you give me his number ??? I don't mind to give him some lesson (punch & smack) LOL...

Dedovix●Big Place, Central Serbia Serbia

Jul 31, 2013●135 Blogs●1,499 Comments

Some women just can`t accept that they are lousy in the sacks ...

NoseHairBob●Ubud, Bali Indonesia

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●135 Comments

"The guy starts chatting and having clear intention of looking for a relationship but after you've given what he wanted, he just decided to dump you and move on to another girl to victimize..."

Welcome to the big bad world of dating sites.

I'm not so sure it's such a bad thing to be taken advantage of early on as you'll learn to be a little more cautious in the future.

It would be difficult to report him for what is essentially belonging to a less desirable subset of men.

Be careful out there, kitten.

nonsmoker●Waterford, Ireland

Jul 31, 2013●282 Blogs●8,720 Comments

You should consider Cyn_Reals offer.
She is CS warrior Goddess

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

Hi Dedovix, sadly you don't know me...

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

Hi Nosehairbob, thank you for your lovely advice

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

I am nonsmoker, I will give to her his number later. Lol

KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland

Jul 31, 2013●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments

Hi Dess, I stopped dating on here because that's about 90% of what I was getting from guys here. I didn't find it hard to figure out in most cases though. Just take your time to get to know someone.

Dedovix●Big Place, Central Serbia Serbia

Jul 31, 2013●135 Blogs●1,499 Comments

Dess7717:
Hi Dedovix, sadly you don't know me...

You know, most of the time people can`t tell if Im serious or joking .This time, Im pretty sure I was joking...

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

Hi KNenagh, thanks and I'm taking my time now... I'm just here on the site posting blogs and giving comments. :-)

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

Hi Dedovix, I don't know you, so sadly I took it seriously but thanks for correcting it out...

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

Hi Kasih, thanks and I appreciate that. All I can say is I believe in Karma. Lol

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

That's a good idea Migsy... :-)

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

Well the guy is surfer dude. Live in the same city. Drive a white van, into construction and owns a SUV....
How about that? Lol... I didn't name him but that would identify him.... Ha ha.

nonsmoker●Waterford, Ireland

Jul 31, 2013●282 Blogs●8,720 Comments

You can tell all the people what you like,
If the guy is the silver tongued smooth operating Player you make him out to be then I doubt he will be deterred. and I doubt other desperate women will pay you heed.

Its just Like we ALL know ALL Politicians lie ALL the Time.
Yet We ALL go vote them In.

That's not to say you should Shut up tight like a clam an never trust again.

Just hide a bit of yourself away for those special people who are in your life a while.
But that's just my opinion.

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

I understand your point nonsmoker but there stills a lot of naive ladies here that need to be warned... Yup I don't mind for desperate woman to go on but still I need to do something about it... I've been stupid but don't want another girl to fall for that...

Migsy●candelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines

Jul 31, 2013●45 Blogs●923 Comments

Is he looking btw

Migsy●candelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines

Jul 31, 2013●45 Blogs●923 Comments

I meant good looking

prettyandwitty●Valetta, Majjistral Malta

Jul 31, 2013●2 Blogs●40 Comments

Can you say something like - he si 55, from my country, divorced etc?
I also met such bad guys. If you do what they want, they switch to the next one. Or they say nice things till they convince you to play their game. Just decide what is valuable for u and don't step back from your principles.

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

He posted old pics there. He looked young in the picture but not in reality. Lol

Migsy●candelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines

Jul 31, 2013●45 Blogs●923 Comments

I hope ms.dess we are not talking bout mr.bungalow

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

Thanks prettyandwitty, I am standing on my ground. Lol. Thanks. Yup they all come across as sweet and caring to start with then bam, goodbye...
Anyway, he's 35 and divorce...

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

Don't worry Migsy, not him... Lol. So another one aye? Ha ha

Dedovix●Big Place, Central Serbia Serbia

Jul 31, 2013●135 Blogs●1,499 Comments

I predict that this blog will have more views than the "Charley bit my finger" video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_OBlgSz8sSM

Bogart_1960●Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France

Jul 31, 2013●2,177 Comments

oh Yeah, this is kind of the most elitist piece of novella I've ever seen lately... nobel prize at least !!

Chocheta●Between somewhere and nowhere, Gauteng South Africa

Jul 31, 2013●383 Comments

Eish...

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

This is not a joke Wafwotam, this is reality... Good on you in fulfilling your goals. Why am I going to be blocked when I didn't name anyone... Or maybe you can relate to my blog... Deeply. Lol

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

Hi Dedovix, I'll be famous then. Lol

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

Thanks Bogart1960. Novel prize for stepping up for what I believe in, priceless... Lol

Migsy●candelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines

Jul 31, 2013●45 Blogs●923 Comments

I remember u posted a blog bout a guy who meet here

i hope the girl doesnt take u as a rival btw how did u knw that he is talking with this gal?

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

Hi Cocheta, you look sick, you want some anti-emitics?

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

Hi Dedovix, maybe she's an ice Diva :-)

Dedovix●Big Place, Central Serbia Serbia

Jul 31, 2013●135 Blogs●1,499 Comments

Dess7717:
Hi Dedovix, I'll be famous then. Lol

Thats the spirit
Always look on the bright side of life...

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

Hi Migsy, that's up to the girl isn't it. I'm not there to stop her but at least she knows about it and if she's dumb enough to carry on, that's her problem not mine...

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

And Migsy, the girl told me so that she's talking to the guy... Hard to admit but the qualities of the girl was similar to mine...

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

Hi Dedovix, even though I'm broken inside but my spirit is still fighting... Lol

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

Hi Migsy, I can totally relate to that :-)
Me and the guy did connect that's why he kept coming back till I had enough of being used... Maybe I did something as well to push him away... But glad I did walk away... No turning back now.

Migsy●candelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines

Jul 31, 2013●45 Blogs●923 Comments

Thats good for u ok dont men play u show them that u are a varsity in playing field ok

Bogart_1960●Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France

Jul 31, 2013●2,177 Comments

ah, thanks for clarifying that up! whoo for more episodes!!!

Dess7717OP●Auckland, New Zealand

Jul 31, 2013●6 Blogs●61 Comments

Hi Migsy, I'm actually an MVP on this field. Lol

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