I judge them as honestly as I can. If it's a fall with a little style and grace after many wines or beers, generally they'll receive more than a 6. If it's a sloppy entry, with only a sherry or a pint responsible, I have to consider them a little more harshly - maybe a 4.
Stay in the shallow end I say, it's much safer.....
Non - Losing your cool isn't an isolated case. I've heard of others losing their mojo, their panache, their hutspah (sp) and other groovy parts of themselves recently.
There's obviously some image ghoul hording funky parts of people. Imagine how incredibly irrisitible such a creature would be. I suspect Happy369.
We can't control how others behave, only how we let it affect ourselves. Spinning your wheels on what other people say about you or think about you is a whole lotta wasted energy, I reckon.
I've found the 5 second rule and its length of extension directly proportional to how hungry you are, how good the food is, or who's looking.
"Buttsies on your apple and First dips on your (crips) a Dublin way of saying Crisps." This makes as much sense to me as what might a politician should he be required to answer to a direct question.
The "sharing their love" self justification is one of evolution's greatest tricks to make more of us. Would people's lives REALLY be that incomplete without kids? Haven't we evolved to think past this simplistic reasoning?
At least identify and understand the reasons you want children before you have them.
Although I've lived in the region for quite a few years, I've never been to Vietnam, it's never really interested me. I have to say, for me, there is a great similarity to much of South East Asian countries that I've been/lived in.
Why not go that little bit further and have a truly different experience? India is really cheap to get to (air asia from KL into trichy is about $120) and you will be overwhelmed by the experience in so many ways. It really IS that incredible.
Nepal is also super cheap to get to these days (skyscanner.net is a good site to find cheapies) and you just won't find as nicer people or any more astounding scenery anywhere else - it's truly breathtaking.
Both India and Nepal are VERY cheap place to travel as well.(I live in Nepal regularly for $300 a month)
I love South East Asia and have spent many years living about the place as it's pretty well serviced by my modern day needs. But for feeling like you are in another world, India and Nepal are great close by and cheap options maybe to consider.
RE: apparently...
"Hmmm I am feeling rather sagacious today..."That's sobriety for ya.