No pic no response ???

Why do so many men say if you don't have a photo they won't respond to messages ?

Does it not occur to them that I simply don't want a man who is so shallow as to care about a woman's looks more than her quality or honesty or morals etc ?
I'm waiting for a man who is special , who isn't blinded by looks and a cute figure , they assume I am not attractive or that I don't have a good body .... We know what they say about the word A.S.S.U.M.E don't we.....
I can't wait to meet a man who is worthy enough and to see the look on his face when he DOES see me ....

Does anyone else feel the way I do ?

Cheers
Daisy
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@ Hurricanedaisy - Men are 'VISUAL' creatures, it has absolutely nothing what so ever to do with being shallow, Gir.... scold .... It seems that in your 56 years that you have learnt nothing about us guy's..... blues moping
Hurricanedaisy
Melbourne, Victoria Australia.

my before post meant for you miss,

i agree with you......handshake wine
put up a picture of Skippy the bush kangaroo as your profile pic wink wink
Rest assured I have learnt heaps about men , just wondering why men in my age group HAVEN'T ?
they are superficial and dont have blind faith ....and they want a kylie minoge as their sweet heart ....banana
@ Virgo - Maybe this is true of you, Mate but not every guy... rolling on the floor laughing cheers


@ Hurricanedaisy - If you have ever put on make-up, or some bling, maybe bought yourself a pretty dress for a night out or party,..... then you are guilty of being a 'visual' image of yourself for men.....

Go get some photos of yourself and put it up on this site if you don't want guys to think that you are either not real, hiding from your partner or anyone on here who may know him.

My question to you Girl is 'What are you afraid of'....??????


hug wine
The same reason women state this. tongue

Physical attraction is critical.
Sure, other characteristics are ALSO important.
But, those take a lot longer to filter.
Beauty is indeed a burden for the bearer.cool
scold H.daisy: Nope! You dont have to use a photo, if you dont want too. Some womens dont use photos. And some mens doesnt, use photos either. Its not a reguirement anyway! It is a choice, that You make. And maybe! Just maybe the person that you connects with. May not be online. When you meet them. In other words: You might meet them somewhere else. Like in person. Using a photo, Is up to you only!
I would like to make a bet that NOBODY without a photo/s has ever made a successful connection on any date site.... grin
i find most people dont even bother reading a profile, just see a pic, if it attracts them, they will establish contact
@ Happy - Yes there would be a few like that but the same can be said for Girls..... comfort wine

I think that anyone who does not include at least one photo of themselves in their profile can't be too serious about finding someone..... professor
sorry Hans......asian only wanted here...banana banana
hi hans how are ya when i first came to CS i did meet someone with out a picture and she looked nothing like her picture but it was OK the reason i stoped seeing her was because i could not afford her beer
@ Popey - doh How could she look nothing like her pic when she didn't have one.... dunno confused .... cheers
sorry hans i ment to say i had no picture and she did beer
@ angel - Tell me Girl, why do you have a photo on your profile..... dunno .... hug wine
Its a cruel world ...laugh
dancing @My Hans:. .Because that was my choice. . . duh! batting
I don't believe it. Sorry.. I don't. Reasons I have encountered for not showing a photo..

I don't want my friends to know I internet date. Then don't.
I am married or engaged and I don't want my spouse/fiance to see me.
I am really a man, but I think it is cool and funny to be what I am not.
I am really a woman, but I think it is cool and funny to be what I am not.
I am really much older/younger than I am pretending, but I think it is cool and funny to be what I am not.
When I posted my photo I was thrown off the website for doing something stupid. If I post it again on this new profile someone will recognize me and I will be thrown off again.
I look nothing like the description I gave, but I think it is cool and funny to be what I am not.

All of those reasons myself and many others here have seen before. CS allows you to not have a photo. That is fine and their call. Whether or not one of us is silly enough to respond to you if you message us, well that is our call.
@hans that's why I said people, I didn't mention gender.
@ angel - doh I am well aware that it's your choice, Girl but you didn't answer my question 'WHY'..... hug wine
Im gunna give it a try!wink Hey wine
I won't write them. I am not shallow...however, I do wish to see someone's eyes...they are the window to the soul.
smoking @Hans: darling! Using an photo, doesnt mean that, its a real photo of you. umm! I wonder is this photos on my profile, is really a photo of me. uncertain uh! Who Am I? . . . giggle
scold Hans: Why? Im not lookin. If i were. It would say on my profile. Not everybody here. Is looking for someone here. Btw: When I google: Blogs. CS Blogs also came up too. And this is not the only blog, that i uses. That is the answer!
scold Hans: Why? Im not lookin. If i were. It would say on my profile. Not everybody here. Is looking for someone here. Btw: When I google: Blogs. CS Blogs also came up too. And this is not the only blog, that i uses. That is the answer!
scold HANS: Im not lookin. If i were, i would state that, on my profile. Not everybody here, is lookin for somebody here. Btw: When i google Blogs. CS Blogs, also showed up too. And this is not the only blog page, that i uses. . .
Daisy over here.confused
wave I agree with Hans4711, Happy4369, and Calliopesgirl.
It is everyone's choice to post a pic or not, as it is everyone's choice to reply or not, to each's own. There's no right or wrong, just what feels right peace
scold H.Daisy: . Sorry! My website malfunction. . .My bad! laugh
Men are virtual creatures, seeing is believing etc etc and cs do require pics so there ..
laugh
Ken , you are a very cynical man , how long have you been online ? What , no luck yet ?
Can't imagine why ......
Im very sad Angel-you said we were going to Paris you didnt say you were going to use me.crying grin "boing"
I meant VISUAL not virtual .. laugh typos
was that that way.....

hmmmmmm i am so stupid not

even able to understand it...doh dunno blues
How would this online luck be measured?
smoking WAFWIE: Again darling! I am planning on going to Paris, with you. As soon Hans pay me for that game, that i won... snooty And he better pay me too. Or else!
I just think fairs fair most people put one up. And CHOCO I do read there profiles after , can tell quite a lot from them.
Oh and I'm actually the snake in photo here , hanging around some duds neck, nice guy though.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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