hmm....

Whenever I thought the guy is right, it all ends in disappointment. And the latest would always be a bigger disappointment than the previous. Guess that's just the way it is..

life is full of thorns but still we will seek the roses

Hi diana
i think unless its love at first...
its a wise move to rise slowly, love grows and hope does too.
the way i see past relationships
each one is a warm up, a exercise run you might say to the real thing .. THINK POSITIVE

Oops
meant to say... love at first SIGHT

If you cook me bacon I would love your forever

Hey not miss taken if you like bacon this guy might be for you, lol.... and itchywitchy (did I get that right) I agree with you by time you meet the one you are really ready for them and they for you...

sorry itchywitch oops sorry my dear...

you are taken my bacon?

You explain it so well diana...
now on that positive thought i bid you a goodnight

lets focus on the bacon

Hi Diana.
Yes, our expectations dim a little. Then they spike again when we finally do meet one who is great and all that. Sometimes it only lasts for weeks, then other times it lasts years or decades. From experience if you find a great mate and the lord takes the person away, oh wow is it hard to find another. We try not to compare them, but it is natural to do so. I think the best tactic is to intentionally seek someone different but also very good. So far in three or four months here I see several that really get my attention. I am sure as you peruse the forums and blogs you will find some of interest too. Try not to insist on the greatest love story ever right from the starting gate. Disappointment always follows a long marathon race where you go at full speed right from the start because then midway you tire and stagger. Pace yourself. One day at a time. Allow it to either grow or wither as appropriate. If it is meant to be it will grow and bloom and wow you will be so happy you hung in there. :)

thata alot of words

alot of words