How do you approach a girl in real life!!

wear an elvis onsie

how you doing katherine

i see what you did there steffie... inflatable doll? lol.. the feel i got from your comment says 'money can buy you love' is it?
nice suggestions there katherine.

All I'm saying is people have different priorities and needs. Rather than frown upon them, let's think what each of us has to offer, and what he'd like the other person to bring to the table.

yea i guess you're right. lets be honest, we are humans n humans have some needs to fulfill. its the case of give and take. you are as good as what you have to offer, i guess. correct me if i am wrong.

I sense a bit of sarcasm

Look, let's assume a woman is in love with you. Ok, but why? Maybe because you love her? Ok but what does that mean in reality? Maybe you take care of her, or you are kind and sweet to her, or you listen and understand her?

Or maybe she is in love because she admires you in a number of different ways... Or she has a great time with you?

Something like that, right? I mean, it's common sense! I don't mean the relationship is transactional; just interactional. Only thing I'm saying is people come in all shapes and forms, so be clear who you are and what you are looking for. That alone will make dating so much easier for you

With caution.

Benni
Hello and how r u?

im grand katherine ty

if you are having a conversation with a person and it's the first conversation and they're trying to find out what your bringing to the table walk away there are only interested in what you have not you

Ed is right about being courteous, but don't put women on a pedestal. You are equally good. And politeness is not about being ahead in some game, it's about who you really are (if you are that way).

yea you're right steffiee. however, sometimes it just becomes difficult to come across people who you can relate to. then you have the internet and its a different ball game altogether. to be honest, its becoming more difficult to find natural spontaneous people. people who dont pretend to be something they are not. as the world heads towards being more and more materialistic, the emotional side of things is kinda going down the drain.

yea with caution is right, lol.

Benni
It's cold here but sunny,whats mother nature doing that way?

its baltic here at the moment katherine,minus two or something

One more statement from me and im out if you put a person a pedal stool then they expect be treated higher better than you treat yourself, treat her as an equal and you be loved and treated equal that how it should be equal partners

Benni
I'd love to chat with you however rude to chat here so lets chat somewhere else inbox me

thanks katherine for figuring that out, lol. and yes nonsmoker, i dont drink niether do i smoke

angelpepper, yea i noticed that... pretty cool (but thats just online i guess). Thanks for the warm welcome.

thanks for all those replies guys... i already feel at home, lol. thanks for all the expert opinion i really value that see you guys again soon till then

You can ask some folks who had their 20s at the time before internet became one of irresistible trends... They are the experts I supposed...LOL

Do you have older brothers or another male relatives ??? You can ask them... If you are afraid of your dad, don't even bother to ask him... This is a guy thing...LOL...

You will meet various types out there, so you just start to say Hello and don't be tooo straightforward or toooo pushy... You can start conversation with light topic...Don't talk about politics or history before you know her very well (they will call you ridiculous, unless you meet her in organization and both of you are activists)... Just casual conversation with smile and confidence is a good idea...

The problem that I can see on a virtual dating side or also often in real life that men can not or dare not initiate a real intelligent conversation which would be the simplest way to approach a girl. I mean not any artificial topic, but e.g. talking about the situation or telling a short remark about something which is there and can be interesting for both of you, and so on.