Life Long Love...
Should marriage frustrate us, test us, or to make us feel unworthy or inadequate, should marriage be the most fulfilling and sacred of all human to cultivate romance and fun, fulfil each other's spiritual, emotional, and s*xual needs , to be passionate and rewarding . Was it meant to last a lifetime providing emotional stability and comfort through a history of shared experiences, so how do you build an indestructible marriage. There would appear to be many advantages to sticking with a long-term relationship with the same person, including a sense of security, strong families that support parents as well as children among other's.
Falling in love is the easy part, however. The challenge is how to keep that spark alive over time and achieve what it's called lifelong love.
The anticipation that something is or might go wrong can be a source of anxiety, for example, people's fear of abandonment of some kind. Sometimes the very fear itself gives rise to behaviour that may lead to the feared thing coming to pass, resulting in a self-fulfilling prophecy. For example, "If I am afraid that you will push me away, I might not risk getting close or closer to you, and the effect is that I am pushed away because I do not appear interested in being close.