So what!!!


I can see many single people losing faith in themselves when they fail to find anyone. Sometimes they seem down when they see a couple passing by or at similar sight, they get upset that what is wrong with them that they are single.

I want to say, SO WHAT if you are currently single. Instead of getting upset about this they have better option and that is, to search for something which they missed out when they were not single. It could be anything like going out with friends, taking an adventure tour, visiting a new place, or giving some quality time to their own self.

Life is amazing while we all need that special someone to enjoy this amazing life. But while we get this little time out of a beautiful relationship, or a marriage, we need to understand a very precious message hidden underneath, which is to value ourselves. Sometimes we forget that our life is as precious anyone else on this earth. While we put so much energy in finding that special person, we also need to put equal energy in finding ourselves, our hobbies, discovering new leisure, and experiencing new beautiful things.

It's just about filling up those huge bags of love in our heart and preparing ourselves to welcome the new beautiful partner in our lives. A big part of which consists of healing up self from last break up or divorce, or if u were always single, than healing up our heart from the fear of not getting anyone in future. It's about believing, no matter how our past was future will definitely be 100% better. applause

Be that awesome and loving person which you are at your core. Obviously you cannot change others or the situation around you, but you can obviously change yourself in a better way. It's all about nurturing our own self and be the first one to give yourself the love which you expect to get from other.

Last but not the least let your heart fly. heart wings
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It is not easy to do that but possible. The best cure for feeling sorry for yourself is to spend your time doing things you enjoy doing. Think people without interests and hobbies suffer a lot more from loneliness. dunno
Create a new hobby then.. And fing new interests and find a friend in animal, coz they r lovely creatures.. this could be the best thing to do in this case.. :) Gud luk.. By the way music can be an awesome option too.. head banger
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you must try the lungi dance ( available on youtube ) for a change.
Tiz very good advice.....it can be soul destroying sitting and feeling sorry for ourselves...Also if you are an animal lover a pet can be very pleasant company,,Especially a dog...I have a jack russel terrier called "sprinkles",,love him to bits....cheers cool wine wave conversing detective dancing dog dancing dog daydream guitar reunion
@Ed1941, Dance is d best way to keep mentally, emotionally and Physically healthy and as gave ur example it cud lead to find dat special someone..

@ajkaorjun, When consumed wid work, u can use 10 large breathing while u r still working, this will not only wud give some belief but will also clear ur thinking..

@twazzle70 I love dogs, they give u this unconditional love.. And dogs could be very very haling at times, specially, when u r an oversensitive person like me..
gods will enjoy it,w/ out his blessing it will fail,read the bible n help folks,etc.find ur calling.
we r born alone and die alone....being single is a diffciency due to not accepting the people as they are...nobody is perfect n nobody can change all the people at one go?.....so compramise in relationships is required...
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