Friend Request....

Should we always accept "friend request" that we received from someone?

We have right to approve or disapprove it.
I don't always approve friend request that I receive, and you could not push me to accept you to be in my friend list when I thought that you were not good enough for me. And you also have same right to refuse me to be your friend, when you thought that I was not deserve it.

I would not be offended when someone delete me on their friend list or refuse me, as that is their right.

My reason to send/approve friend request to someone, could be because of :
- I like them
- I respect them
- They are nice persons
- They are in deed my friend
- Salute...
- sympathy....
- etc...

Having many friends is a riches and a good thing, but having someone is something different..

Have a nice week end everyone...

peace peace
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Smartases I agree with you.
I removed one "friend" who had not even asked me.
I find people calling themselves a friend too easy.
Like some people calling someone a here too easy.

wave
Also, I like your style lol. Never get down, walk proud. (:
Hi Meek One wave

after quite long enough stay here, I am sure we can recognize someone from his/her picture whether he/she is real or fake.. If we have to judge from look at the first place.

Well... I dont have any comment when someone remove me from his list, whatever reason. what can we do when it's happened? that is his right to do.. I will not beg to be a friend of someone...
I don't really see the purpose of a 'Friends List'.

You can be friendly/friends with people without one. That is just like a public display of so-called friendship.

A bit like a wedding is a public display of so-called love laugh
Hi Welela.. I agree with you, no body should tell me what to do..
accept or not accept that is our right... sometimes good looking is not enough to always be accepted when we dont know who they are... thumbs up
rolling on the floor laughing Molly... you also are right... i accept some persons to be in my friend list, but we dont talk at all.. so it is just for display to show that I have many friends.. rolling on the floor laughing
Smart, I have few that show in my friends list. Last I messaged them was way back in April. I don't delete them nor they do. I don't see any harm except that somebody may think he already is friends with some girls, looks like a player. laugh But if they use their brains, why would the ladies still be on my friends list if I was one. And I never knew any one of them outside CS. hug
Well V... what happened to me, almost 90% I talk with my friends on the list.

some people said that friendship on the site is just a virtual world and will never meet each other on the real world.
who said ? till today I met with more than 10 persons from CS coming from different countries...

when I know they are real... I have willing to meet them as it is nice to meet new peoples..
Hi Smartywave .

One question, as you are a senior-pro in CS, what is the best way to maintain a friend/friendship whom you found here on CS....?.

Question is open for everyone
You know I play games online, and am even in a guild, and although we will never meet, or so I think, we have some interesting chats lol.

I also have a brother, who plays online games, and he has a few people who he has played with for many years, who he considers his friends. They have even planned trips together, and met each other on occasion.

My point is you just never know. We are all strangers until someone offers us a cup of tea. (:

And it's nice to meet you too.
I just ignore friend requests that are not prefaced with many back and forth emails first. Got about 10 of them just sitting there ignored. Some for years. Not a single email from any of the people who made them. Far as I am concerned it was a worthless friend request and it will always be ignored.
i just sent a friend request to you giggle happy week end...yay
I only accept friends who are on the blogs,,,,I delete the rest,,,and I feel fine with it!!!
Hi Prob...

How to maintain our friend? I think it would not different with how you maintain your freindship in a real world..
Meek One, it was so great when we could with friend from internet.
I know how it feel... One of my best friend right now I met from CS.. Fortunately she stay in the same city with me so I can meet her every week end when we have time... Trust me, it feels good...
Yes Ken, like I said we should always hv to accept friend request that we get.. Sure it based on some consideration.
Mei... teddybear my girl... I hv accepted you...
Without sending me FR, we are best friend already dear...
Val my friend... Nothing wrong when we decided to talk just with friends that we know... You may more comfortable with them rather than talking with new person...
Hi Smarty,

You have the distinction of being one of the friendliest people here. You are a very nice person. And yes I have a pic of you as one of my friends!yay
Oh Gen,,,, i just try to be myself.. Try not to have negative thinking and not to under estimate peoples...
But what can we do when other hv negative thinking to us? Just let them..
Yes madam
Yes Sir.. ?
I do not accept any friends on friend requests. That does not mean that I do not like them. I block no one. I answer every one.
For me, I feel that no one will feel chided, nor jelous.
I consider all of you my friends.
Hi Smart! I normally refused any friend's request from stranger and only accept 'friends'. There are these few guys who keep on sending their friend's requests over and over again and I have to delete them over and over again! Don't they ever get the message?!?!? doh
Hi Cheav wave hug lips
Hi Mim. nice post on soc's. blog.
Oh! That one! Thank you blushing
Hi Cheavy and Mimi... yes, that is our right what gonna do to FR that we received.

Mimi.. I got FR from 1 young guy and I dont accept him bcos I dont want to be his mother..laugh

Mimi...I miss you dear teddybear teddybear
Hi Smart! reunion Kamu libur lagi kan hari ni? I'm about to board the train anytime now, heading home. Miss you too wink Hey, I had a chat with my mom this morning. She asked if I would like to accompany my half-sister and her Aussie husband to Vietnam next month. I outrightly said no! Lol Never really liked her husband anyway. Told my mom I rather go to Indonesia! giggle and visit you wink

Senang nanti kita ngomong lagi ya! hug teddybear
i ignore my friend request..maybe because i think it should be earned, Even in my FB account. I don't usually accept friend request for privacy purposes.

#FactsWrittenWereBasedOnMyOpinionOnly
Smart, do you think we are practising double standard here? We would not raise an eyebrow if an older man is with a much younger woman. Or is it just us? We both prefer older men especially me, much much older men?
laugh Mimi... I would be glad if you prefer to come to Indonesia.

hei.. your last comment would be a good subject to talk when we meet.
yes, I also prefer to have older guy, but not too old like yours..giggle giggle
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