How to be a good lover? Part 1
1.Engage in open, honest communicationIf you don’t talk to one another honestly & openly, eventually your relationship will get choked to death with all the things you can’t say. If honest communication is a bit of a foreign concept to you, keep trying — it will get easier. As well as being able to tell your lover how you feel, you need to be able to listen, too. If you find it hard to pay attention to what other people are saying — or if you are always just waiting for your turn to speak — you might want to learn a bit about active listening.
2.Know what you want from a relationship, & let your partner know your expectations
These can range wildly from things like being faithful, to wanting to spend lots of time with them. Everyone has different needs in a relationship, & if you don’t tell your lover what you want, they’ll never know!
Hyper-love & bunny kisses,
[ 23 October 2007 ]
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