Not single/Not looking....

I read a man's profile.... "Not single/Not looking"
In his words: looking for friendships.....never know it could lead to more....

Hm...hm....confused confused
In my thoughts, he is looking for friendship, and hoping it could lead to move...... (to a love relation???dunno dunno ) But why put "not single/not looking??"

confused confused confused

Men...please explain to me why certain people do this??hug hug
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probably married or in a relationship, do you really want to go there? If you do ask him
You have it exactly right,bit of a mixed signal script going on..If said chap is not single and not looking then why would said chap say"never know it could lead to more" conversing Seems that the chap is infact seeking "more" confused I think..crying very puzzling indeed. dunno wine
What hes saying is...."I want to meet a Woman"...Im not really Looking Yet"..But I am looking at the Same Time"....And most Importantly whats in there is.."I want to Start out as Friends("And I hope it will lead to much Better Things")......................detective
Lindzylin
Maybe! Just maybe. Just some online friends. Cyber world friends only!
wave I think it cuts down the amount of mail he will
receive. Mine says, just here for the Forums, which is true.
(Of course if I meet someone I connect with, and I may have
already, it changes everything)dancing
PG

Congratulations!!!! cheering cheering cheering hug
Slow down Mimi laugh There are a couple of Cupcakes you like
don't you?laugh
I think CS did a really bad job fusing "not single" and "not looking" because most people assume that you're married or attached. If you want to know, you need to ask him.
giggle giggle giggle

Oooohhhh PG, can't help but feeling elated for you...grin
You are a sweet Woman Mimi.(Pssst, the OP is gorgeous)
Ever put my profile like that but still not effect to some of ppl & get the message
She is, isn't she?? giggle giggle giggle wink
pedal wanna say it direct to the op? conversing grin
Hi Mims wave

I was talking bout that guy with the profile of not looking/not single laugh
Yeah very, and Lavina too. I said too much, shy scared. Going
to bed now, before embarrassed.wave
Pedal: op will heard itwink
And thank you for your compliment teddybear
Night there wave
Lyla

I was responding to PedalGuy's comment wink hug bouquet

PG

Nitey-nite sleep wave
Perhaps by stating "not single/not looking" the person is not looking for a relationship but may be looking for friends as the relationship they are in is long distance.
I assume that he means by not single that he is married.
Not looking; not looking for a serious relationship
Maybe it will lead to something ; He is looking for an affair
I have not single / not looking on my profile. I qualify it by saying what I am looking for in the section further down - friends / penpals.

Your guy does sound a little confusing but maybe he is hoping you will be intrigued enough to ask. Every journey starts with a single question. I'm a big believer in asking what I want to know.


confused
Here is me.
'At this stage, I am here for the blogs and forums and not much more. If you are local to me and inside the age range, under 160 lb, etc. I may be interested in meeting for a coffee or such. You won't know until you ask.'
I see it on a lot of womens' profiles as well. As for why I suppose there are different reasons. Never made much since to me either.
Ah.....so good to read all the comments....wave wave applause
Giving inputs and refreshing...wine wine Thank uuuu....

If my own man do that kind of doing...I wud love to do this.....
motorcycle eerrrrgghhhh!!!grumpyang!!! devil very mad PLAK!!PLAK!! wave wave good bye my love...go and have ur own fun in CS....without me in your life.
yay yay
I am single but not looking as I am now too old an d a bad match for any good looking female. sigh
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