Does this thing called 'real/true love' still exis
Maybe some people, (oh, I'm not excused) are just unlucky?or maybe the right question is, should I/we/you believe it?
if it does exists, did you find it already? still looking for it? you found and lost it?
I just know a lot of people who take relationships for granted. LIKE no one else is willing to put real efforts anymore and LIKE no one really appreciates them as well.
To what I see, some just play around for different reasons. The result is, those serious ones who get played will end up brokenhearted and worst, becoming one of those players as a revenge (maybe?).
I know I'm too young to think about it now, but I guess I must open my eyes for possibilities that things happen.
I'm so confused that I might just blind myself with the fact that 'pure & true love' doesn't exist anymore.
I hate to think that I'm already in the border of believing and not believing it anymore.
do you mind enlightening a naive mind? I might just end up being a sucker like those many out there, I hope not.
P.S if you wonder why ask such thing here in an 'online dating site', oh, people I know nearby just suck and pretty sure, wont give me serious answers. So, it is just a hard try here.
Thanks. I appreciate it in advance.
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If you are goal oriented and pursue everything you want/need, you will be happy with yourself. In a lot of relationships one of the two people are completely surprised that something is wrong, when it goes south. One person is criticising theirself or their spouse,while the other is in la la land thinking everything is perfect. If you take care of yourself and know you are truly happy, you're less likely to be rapped up in your thoughts. Being more apt to communicate. Communication is key.
Love is easy and very hard. Its not always going to be a fairytale. In fact some of the hard times are what produce those fairytale moments.
Never stop believing. Never give up. Just be prepared. True love exist. If we lose the hope, we won't ever truly experience anything close. True love takes time, patience,and lots of nurturing. You create it.
Or at least this is my opinion.
Good Luck
I never thought I'd read such beautiful thing today, since I was fogged with my hopelessness.
I was glad u shared ur experience as well. Eye opening to me I see how inexperienced, naive and immature still I am.
My own shallow perceptions for true love put barriers in being an open-minded person. I was completely wowwed. I had to bookmark this blog as a reminder for me.
I thought of quitting too early without realizing this.
Hearing people true stories are even better than setting my own standards to follow.
In addition as well, now I understand why some people find true love more than once. I used to be prejudice on this, thinking people do it for their own selfish purpose. But not really.
I must say thanks for that. Other comments from Ms. Willow and Ms. Cheechees, thanks for encouragement. I was pushed out from my hopelessness for your kind words. Yeah I wont lose hope and will continue to be openminded as best as I can.
To Mr. Mark, very well said too. I have the same sentiment too and yeah what u said is true. You just said exactly why people relationships fail. And yes air, will take care of my self for now. I think even more haha, since I am already in a massive care for myself haha, maybe just improve my self in the emotional sense.
Thanks everyone for the beautiful comments, encouragement and enlightenment.
How I wish you all guys were just inthe neighborhood. Very sensible to talk to, source of wisdom.
Nice writing.