Secret Meeting
I just want to share my happiness with all of youI ever posted blog that I missed my little baby (5 now) for more than 3,5 years now due to the divorcing. She was taken by her father just to torture me. He hidden her from my reaching. But since last 2 years, he entered Jakarta and my baby stayed with her aunty and been raised by her.
Since I heard that, on purpose I recruited one of my ex. Husband's nephew to be my assistant to connect me to her. Since last years he works for me. I got all information and photos of her from the nephew which he got from the aunty.
After more than 3,5 years I couldn't see my baby.. The nephew tried to arrange the meeting between me and my baby. He marathonly talk to the aunty. They actually have little worry that the secret planning of meeting will be heard by her daddy. If that's happen, he can take her away and go far away to hide her again... Yes, very selfish.
And the day is coming. Today I met her BUT I was not allowed to cry and not allowed to introduce myself to her to avoid she talk to her daddy, not allowed to be over reacting. Let she try to recognize me by herself. The aunty introduced me to her as a friend...
Her aunty told me alot abt her growing up. I was crying when she told me story... That time my baby was not around. I really thanks to her has been taking care of her very well. And we talk abt planning for her elementary school. I just asked her to register her to the best school and I will be financing her.
she answered me..
I wish I hugged her.. But the nephew gave me sign not to over reacting, actually he disagree I kissed her but I couldn't resist.
Very nice meeting... And the aunty promised slowly will introduce who I am to her..
I am your mother darling...
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I hope in my heart all goes well, what a simply beautiful child, humanity cries-out here or justice.
I am so very happy for you! Beautiful little girl! I hope things work out that you can see her often. Is it possible, thru the court, that you can get joint custody or more?
God bless you Amorn!
a giant teddy for your giant love for your daughter
Let us hope the future too will bring better outcome for you and yes this cutie girl.
Stay strong lovely lady I am sure you have support from your friends on cs.
During a divorce, co-parenting with a narcissist can be dangerous. They will go to great lengths to possess the children. They will fabricate or distort the truth in order to maintain allegiance from their children. Deep down a Narc is highly insecure. Parenting after divorce becomes a popularity contest for the Narc. They have to 'win' the children at all costs. Their ego is vulnerable and causes them to lash out at the person who has rejected their idealistic view of themselves.
If you have asked for the divorce you can bet their wrath will be focused on you. So what begins as a type of possession can escalate into a destructive pattern of parental alienation. It is fair to say, a Narc parent is more likely than a regular parent, to use parental alienation as a method to retaliate. What begins as possessive and nonstop attention from the father inevitably turns to rejection as the children enter adulthood.
I Truly wish you all the luck and wish you could seek guidance in this very difficult and heartfelt situation,You should seek legal assistance as you don't want your daughter growing up with the poison he has planted into her by saying you discarded her
well that can mean only one thing
but we can't go on facts here we can only go by what was written and she did have such a blog out afew months ago, i may be slightly mixed up with the opening on the THEN blog but i remember it well cause i replied to her..i had felt sorry for her mother and told her to try be more considerate towards her mum, of how too she must be feeling also.. perhaps alittle out in the cold and unappriciated since she was no longer needed as much by Amor.
Which story am i to believe?
and for the record... i'v no reason for lieing.
The other blog some time ago was about her other teenage daughter.
Glad you were able to spend time with your daughter...
I Am So Proud Of You All!
Amorn. This take my breath away to hear such great news. My heart goes out to you. What a nice gift for starter's.
She is so beautiful! And you two look great together___
I remember the first blog that you posted about this. Your other child. I think that it was around two years ago!
(perhaps her picture was afew years old)
but you never said, so i assumed it was a recent one.
Anyways, i'm sure you can understand my confusion?
But not this time.. I am fine with this blog
That's great news! I'm happy for you....for the little girl
understandable the confusion.
my apologies for my part init.
Happier days for you and your daughter
May you get to see much more of your daughter, and that you will be able to tell her who you are before long.