Meeting the right person at the wrong time :( Why
It sucks that I have met in my life the person that complements my life in many ways and makes me happy. But it seems that we are always in a situation that we cant be together because of life situations beyond our control. And now I am single and the only choice I have is to adjust to what is necessary to be with this person sacrificing my own needs. Is this he only way or is it that he really isnt or wasnt the One? Who Knows. Have any of you ever been in this situation? Your in Love but you cant be together for a reason beyond your control? and what sacrifices do you think are too much ? Is Love really that costly?Do you have to give your own path in order to give in to that Love and save the relationship? What if the other person says they Love You but you are putting in more sacrifice than them ...is this fair?I just needed to Vent any input would be appreciated :)
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Those are the two questions I think you should focus on. I can understand an unfavorable circumstance once, but several times?
If it keeps happening then it's not meant to be..and or he's taking you for a ride. Are you sure he is not involved with several women. A man who is involved with several women are never in favorable circumstances and if he's a player...it will never change. I would seriously consider taking a real good look at your relationship to make sure your not someone's good time on the side when ever he feels like it or is convenient for him.
God bless and Good luck!
There is always going to be times when people that are meant to be won't be able to be with each other. But it is up to them two people to make the effort to be together. Not just one! It won't work w/ only one side. A relationship should be two people working as a team.
My fiancee' works 12 hr shifts nowadays... I wasn't use to him working them plus my aunt was diagnosed w/ cancer about the same time he started to work 12's there is somedays we don't talk at all. I don't deny he is the one for me he's the love of my life. It has put more stress on our relationship but also more hope. God strengthens and teaches us all the time its our job to take it learn it and apply it to helping others!
You know in your heart what the right choice is.
Praying for you Always,
Lora