Very true words Moonlove! For a while I almost thought it impossible but since being on here and finding that man that will "romance the same girl for the rest of his life" I realize how lucky I am. Though I didn't met him here I did met him online and we're getting married in 3 months. lol we are rarely apart and I am as much a part of his family as he is of mine! It can happen never lose hope!
Very true love can flash by you! My fiance' and me walked circles around each other for yrs. Now I can't wait to be his wife! We met online! Found out we knew the same people! I had a picture i took a month before we met in which my fiance' was about 30-40 ft away. The next picture I have is of the day we met. Love is there hiding in the places we least expect it!
Hey girl I can understand where you are coming from... we have to trust in God to lead us in the right direction and maybe that is what you are feeling. I believe that he sets what is right in our heart and sometimes we deny it because we are scared of what he is actually puting in us.
There is always going to be times when people that are meant to be won't be able to be with each other. But it is up to them two people to make the effort to be together. Not just one! It won't work w/ only one side. A relationship should be two people working as a team.
My fiancee' works 12 hr shifts nowadays... I wasn't use to him working them plus my aunt was diagnosed w/ cancer about the same time he started to work 12's there is somedays we don't talk at all. I don't deny he is the one for me he's the love of my life. It has put more stress on our relationship but also more hope. God strengthens and teaches us all the time its our job to take it learn it and apply it to helping others!
I have met a lot of very nice folk on cs! I am now engaged but I continue come on here ever so often to keep in touch. I did not meet my fiance' on cs, however I did meet him online , but on myyearbook. We have been together going on a yr, been engaged since Febuary. He lives real close and we walked circles around each other for yrs on end. After we met I know part of his family and we had the same friends when we were younger. I have a picture on my phone taken at his job in which he is about 30-40 ft away. the next picture was the day we got together! Now it seems like we've always been together. He's my world and it was true love from the moment we met. And I think myspace is for folks of all ages my mom has a myspace and so does my future mother-in-law. God will lead you in the right directon to be with who he has met you to be with. Just follow your heart!
Good post Charles! I think every person that has followed the word has been through folks picking about how they are not a christian and such. And you are right its the devil! But I alway remember God knows the truth and never let it bother me!
Well Donna its pretty clear that he got scared! Thats not an unusal reaction in men or women! If he is the amazing man that you feel that he is, in time after he gets things straight he might come around! I say might because I am not psychic and everyone is different! I don't know your religious beliefs but I would pray that got ease him and help him figure out things!
Beautiful story! My ex and I use to always say "I know you" I did know him, but it was because I had always seemed to type I know you instead of I love you! To this day even though we are no longer together! All either of us have to say is "I know you" and it brings a smile to the others face!
This is an awesome story! I'm going to always going to remember it!
Well... Matthew I think your just honestly a great friend! I been there but the other way around w/ my ex who is still a close friend! I was there for everything! He still left me! But I forgave him! It is hard to walk away in your case though it wasn't like mine he actually talked to me when he didn't "need" me! Your not wrong for feeling that way but any means at all! closer is important to everyone! her downward spiral is nothing you can stop if she continues to let herself do it! An yes love makes you blind! Thats why it always smart to take a step back and look at things for a distance!
If you need to talk feel free to send me a message!
Andy I completly understand! I been there sometimes I still find myself there! Its funny though cause my ex who well we also parted as friends as you and your ex! There was a lot or reasons but he is one of my best friends and means so much to me Id never change it for a sec. The weird part is we (my ex and I) connect to the same songs! adn there were a lot of songs that were ours for different moments in our lifes. "The Reason" by Hubbastank (think that is spelt wrong)was always his song to me about his recovery from alcohol and drugs! " "Stand" by Rascal Flats was our song when he was fighting cancer! "Kiss the Rain" by omg I can't remember the guy but it was our song when broke up! There are several more but thats just naming a few! But those songs I use to remember how God has worked in my life how strong he has made me! Music is so very important in life to me!
Ahhh... Charles none of us are perfect! But the right person capitalizes our qualities and over shadows our flaws! So in a sense there is no perfect woman or perfect "dude man." But only who is perfect for us!
Well Dawn your profile seems to suit you and to tell what you want and who you are! No problem there! Just put yourself out there talk to people you don't know give your opinions in the forums and you are sure to make friends quick! Good Luck!
God Bless ,
Lora
P.S. Some people introduce themselves in the forums might try that!
Yes very true my ex's have all had their butt's bite and i try so hard not to laugh about it cause I know its so wrong!But, then again God may do it for our humor so lol!
Im a plus size woman and I believe that there is plenty of men on here that know how to see past that. Now there is also some that don't care of it like you siad you like what you like. But don't lose faith there are some out there! Quite a few!
In time you will find love don't doubt though sometimes I know it is truly hard to. I too found love did not take it to marriage but I know I love him and I always will to a point. He is still one of my best friends and would not change it for the world! I learned from that it is about being mature and realizing that what is meant to be will be and what is not won't, to be able to find yourself again after being a half of a whole! The odd thing is so much strength is gained in that! Keep faith!
No Rambling just letting it all out! And you are right there is not need in being angry! Believe me I've been there and ended up saying words I didn't mean to and apologized for later! Forgiveness also gives you strength in knowing that you were strong enough to forgive them, makes you proud of yourself! Keep your head up! God is watching over you and in time you will heal!
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Very true words Moonlove! For a while I almost thought it impossible but since being on here and finding that man that will "romance the same girl for the rest of his life" I realize how lucky I am. Though I didn't met him here I did met him online and we're getting married in 3 months. lol we are rarely apart and I am as much a part of his family as he is of mine! It can happen never lose hope!Lora